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Should I do it?
« on: Monday 13 February 06 10:04 GMT (UK) »

Hi all,

I am looking into my family history.
My grandfather was born at  Ynyscynon Road, Penygraig.
Last night I was looking for living relaties in Penygraig on b4u, and found one living at Ynyscynon Road.
Do you think I should ring them, explain who I am , and ask if they are a relative?
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Re: Should I do it?
« Reply #1 on: Monday 13 February 06 10:08 GMT (UK) »

OF COURSE  Cool  Cool
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Re: Should I do it?
« Reply #2 on: Monday 13 February 06 10:09 GMT (UK) »

Personally, if i were them I would prefer a letter than a phone call. That way they aren't 'put on the spot', nor will you have to convince them you are not selling something before you can start a meaningful conversation. A letter would give you a chance to state all the relevant facts that you have, and invite their response in their own time and in their own way.
But - yes I would definitely make contact
In Geneology you cannot afford to leave any stone unturned as you never know what will come up.
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Re: Should I do it?
« Reply #3 on: Monday 13 February 06 13:09 GMT (UK) »



Just go for it adicol, lifes toooooo short to bother about snail mail - give them a call - - - - and then let us know how you went on!!


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Re: Should I do it?
« Reply #4 on: Monday 13 February 06 13:19 GMT (UK) »

I would personally be thrilled if someone rang me up about my family tree so I think you should go for it.
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« Reply #5 on: Monday 13 February 06 13:20 GMT (UK) »

Hi all,

Well, I did it, for two reasons.
1. The mail is too unreliable, i would never know if they got it and were ignoring me, or they didnt get it at all.
2. I am too bloody impatient lol.

It paid off aswell, turned out her hubby was the relative who shared my surname, and if she recalls, he has lived in that house form birth.
She told me her hubbys gran was also of the same surname as i am researching, and she was going to quiz him when he got home, because it may be that my grandfather was his mothers cousin!
The name i gave her rang a bell!!!

If it is the case, it paid off, if not, she says she knows the other families in the street with that surname, and she will speak to them and pass on my details.

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Re: Should I do it?
« Reply #6 on: Monday 13 February 06 13:25 GMT (UK) »

How cool is that  Cool  Cool Well done!
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« Reply #7 on: Monday 13 February 06 13:27 GMT (UK) »

I know, well worth ringing and making my self seem like a nutter lol
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Re: Should I do it?
« Reply #8 on: Monday 13 February 06 13:27 GMT (UK) »

Congratulations! Cheesy

I wish I had the confidence to that .... if it had been me I would probably have gone for the 'snail mail' option!

Good for you! Let us know what happens!

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Re: Should I do it?
« Reply #9 on: Monday 13 February 06 17:41 GMT (UK) »

Wow Adicol - what a result!  I think I might get the phone book out.

Well done - keep us updated

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Re: Should I do it?
« Reply #10 on: Monday 13 February 06 17:50 GMT (UK) »

Well done! I am obviously of far too cautious a nature!
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Re: Should I do it?
« Reply #11 on: Tuesday 14 February 06 11:19 GMT (UK) »




Always go for it - - - - Life's too short to do otherwise!


Well done.


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Re: Should I do it?
« Reply #12 on: Wednesday 15 February 06 22:13 GMT (UK) »

Definitely yes!  Cheesy

I have done so on a few times and they have been relatives I did not know existed!  Life is too short.  Since I moved in with my partner of 8 years I have packed more into a week, day month than most other people do in 3 months or a year.  Mainly family history research as we are both addicts with 13000 ancestors between us so far  Shocked

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Re: Should I do it?
« Reply #13 on: Thursday 16 February 06 10:48 GMT (UK) »

Blimey John, how far have you gone back?

Just shows I've got a long way to go with my family then!

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Re: Should I do it?
« Reply #14 on: Thursday 16 February 06 12:45 GMT (UK) »

Hi Chui

Have got back on one line to 1536 I think, in Scotland near Elgin thanks to the IGI.  Most other lines only go back to about 1600's as the civil war made a mess of records, some I cannot get back before 1811!  Going forward on the siblings branch is also tricky sometimes unles there is another researcher.  I do collect all twigs and branches hence the size of the tree, but I do make a lot of contacts.

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