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Boongie Pam
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Pa is Scottish, Ma is Welsh, Nose is Roamin'
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Searching for living relatives (or recent ancestors) and Rootschat
Rootschat is a forum where we can all learn and help each other understand the many different resources to trace our family trees.
In general we work backwards from ourselves to the past and most of us can get back a hundred years just by speaking to our families.
Not everyone is so fortunate and every user of Rootschat will understand how hard it is to get started when you do not know your near family. We all empathise with the difficulties and emotions searching for your family can bring.
With this type of research we have to be especially careful for a number of reasons.
Firstly, anything posted on the internet is in the public domain. Anybody can see this information - including unscrupulous types. To protect people and their identities we do not encourage the posting of information about people who are or maybe still living.
Even with permission from the subject of a post we would seriously advise against giving too much information as to betray their identity.
The Rootschat moderators reserve the right to delete or edit posts that we believe may contain information that could be misused to the detriment of the subject.
Secondly, if information is given about living people or of the recently deceased and this is found by them or their close relatives there is a risk of upset and trauma.
So please be prudent in the information you post.
There are many ways to trace living relatives using publicly available telephone directories, "friends" websites (e.g. alumni sites, school sites etc), local newspapers and electoral registers.
If you are searching for long lost relatives it is recommended to use a support service who are trained intermediaries.
One such service provided in the UK is by the Salvation Army.
LINK: Salvation Army Tracing Service
LINK: Tracing birth parents
There are a number of other sources you could try
http://www.1837online.com has records of births marriages and deaths to 1983 though you will have to pay and will need to know an approximate date of birth (within a few years) to make it practical
http://www.192.com/search/people.cfm which provides electoral register details for 2005, though you may have to pay.
http://www.b4u.co.uk/ free but outdated electoral register information
http://www.friendsreunited.co.uk well known site helping people find old school friends etc.
http://www.missing-you.net
http://www.gro.gov.uk/gro/content/research/traceline/index.asp#0
Best of Luck,
Pam
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All census look up transcriptions are Crown Copyright
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Dumfrieshire: Fallen, Fallon, Carruthers, Scott, Farish, Aitchison, Green, Ryecroft, Thomson, Stewart
Midlothian: Linn/d, Aitken, Martin
North Wales: Robins(on), Hughes, Parry, Jones
Cumberland: Lowther, Young, Steward, Miller
Somerset: Palmer, Cork, Greedy, Clothier
Currently offline due to work reasons- sorry for the silence!
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joanna dot
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Thank you Pam for your quick reply ,I should have known it would be too soon to give any details regarding my cousins .I will try some oher way .I will get in touch with my brother and see if he knows .All the very best for xmas and a happy new year to all the team .You all do a great job looking things up for us for which we are truelly grateful Thank You Joan   
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Christopher
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There's a reasonable amount of good information on how to start tracing living relatives on Rootschat. I've just been having a look at a site called eHow which gives tips on "How to Find Relatives Who Emigrated From the United States." These tips can be adapted to make it easier to find living relatives in any area ...
1. Establish their last known address.
2. Many people, unless they've moved in connection with their work, tend to move to the county or country where their ancestors originally lived so try to learn about the history of your family as it's possible this will help in finding living ancestors.
3. Use online forums. eHow states that "on heritage-specific forums you can post requests for missing family living abroad to contact you. Be sure you can post your information anonymously and receive contact through the forum (ie use a Personal Message facility) This way your private information will be protected." An extra piece of advice ... don't disclose too much information about the living person or persons as their privacy also needs to be protected. Don't show their phone numbers online even if their numbers are in a telephone book. Telephone companies give people the option to have their number in a phone book or have an ex-directory number. If you put it on the internet you've not given them an option so have intruded on their privacy.
4. If you know where the person attended church, played sport or worked send a message to the church, employers or sports club as they may be able to give you some information. I know that when a member of the RTBI (Round Table of Britain and Ireland) moved to a new area the club from which he was moving used to post a message to the club in the area where he and his family were going to live telling them about the move so that there was a good chance of the family getting a warm welcome on their arrival and would not feel like total strangers in a new area.
5. Do some networking. Contact friends that you and the living person shared. A friend of mine did some excellent networking as we'd lost contact for almost twenty years. I tried to find him online and managed to find a much younger guy, with the same christian name and surname, who is a Glasgow based singer. My friend had more success. He contacted a mutual friend who hadn't a clue as to my location but his wife then played her part and did some networking so the friend searching for me was able to contact my sister and get my contact details.
The National Insurance Contributions Office (formerly the Contributions Agency) may be able to assist in tracing missing relatives, but this is only in the event of a family crisis such as a death or sudden illness.
Check this link for a few more ideas on how to find living relatives. http://tinyurl.com/dd7cz
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sparkle
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Moderator comment: quote removed & further post split. Now on Cheshire board.
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thea543
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Hi
I have all the electoral rolls from 1990 until 2005 on disc if anyone needs a lookup I will gladly do this for them.
Kind Regards
Thea
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pinot
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A note for Joan, back in '07; I rediscovered a living cousin simply by Googling his first and last names. You never know . . .
Pinot
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Mborrill
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I have used all of these techniques below to locate living relatives.
Ancestry has made it possible to search the GRO birth registers from 1916 to 2005, using surname and mother's maiden name this makes it so much easier trying to trace lines forward.
Its worthwhile checking Ancestry's death index 1984-2005 will give DOB to make sure person is still living.
If you find a *known* relatives death, looking on sites like, Obituary UK and Search Family Notices [this is also useful for marriages and births], you may locate a memorial notice [placed in UK newspapers] for the more recently deceased which gives other family names. [Obviously use tact and don't contact newly bereaved family] Also look for online newspapers for the area to search family notices, each newsgroup varies with ease of search, length they keep report etc etc.
Contact the local library where the death occurred to search for older known death notices [once you have at least the month and year of death]may also yield family names
OR buy the death certificate as often next of kin are the informants
When you have identified a possible living relative, you can try looking in directory enquiries or the electoral role such as 192 or on Find My Past for their address and/or telephone number. Sending a polite letter or making a telephone call [which I always follow up with a letter] often gains results.
Use message boards such as Curious Fox (£5 annual membership) never received any replies but did locate cousins using the site. Or a great site I discovered in January called Missing You [free to use] Within a few weeks of posting four messages [for separate lines] two days apart I recieved contact from descendants of these lines and I traced a third line myself using above methods.
Also use the various online tree sites to trace relatives such as Genes Reunited, Ancestry, Rootsweb Worldconnect, Gencircles etc etc
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BOCOCK:-Lincs
BORRILL;- Hull (occ Bakers) & Grimsby
CLARVIS:- Any
KENDALL:-N.Lincs, Hull (1860+) esp Primitive Methodist's
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Headtheball
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Further to what some people have already mentioned, it is definitely worth simply Googling the name. After going down all the usual routes, I Googled my G-G-Grandfather's name out of frustration! The first link sent me straight to this website (Rootschat) where I found my (previously unknown) third cousin searching for my side of the family! I know I was very lucky but geneology is becoming a very popular hobby and so you never know who else is tracing your family tree 
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unclequentin
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Hello, can you help me? I have tried a couple of posts trying to find anyone who might know anything about my family (Gomersall) which originated in Barnsley. I have had no responses and wondered if I was doing something wrong.
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Headtheball
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Hey - well the important thing is to give as much information as you can (like where they lived and when, occupation, names , BMD dates etc) but be careful about sensitive information, especially as there may be other living relatives looking them up.
I checked on freebmd.rootsweb.com for Gomersall in Barnsley and there are only 170 results for ALL births, marriages and deaths (Gomersall) in Barnsley between 1850 and 1932. This is a tiny amount so is a good starting point (unfortunately they don't have earlier than 1850 transcribed).
If you know their forenames and when they were there, you may well find them on this list. If you do, the list will give you a GRO number so that you can order their birth/marriage/death certificates. (Marriage certs are good ones to look up as you can be more certain that you have the right person as TWO names are involved).
Hope this helps?
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unclequentin
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Thanks.
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dollylee
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I must be thick as a brick because I find this all so confusing.
If a private individual has allowed his/her name to be published in a newpaper along with personal information, in a telephone directory, a business directory or on the internet does it not become public information?? And as such why are we not allowed to supply the information to someone requesting it?
There is a fine line here that I just can't see.....the fault is probably my own, but I always thought that once you allowed your information to become public....it is just that...public information.
Please explain this in a way which I can finally understand.
Thanks
dollylee
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AJ Brophy_Santos
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It depends upon the information that you are going to disclosed. You just have to be very careful about it. Some information are beneficial to others, some can be used in a wrong way. As long as you won't give your personal information such as your phone number, credit card number, home address which can be use with bad faith. Names, dates, places of birth can easily be a public information because these are informations which you use let say to contact persons.
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