Are you sure she was born 1917 and not 1908? I only ask because there is a Winifred Clara KIRK birth registered Medway district 1908 http://freebmd.rootsweb.com and there is also a Winifred Clara TAYLOR died in the Canterbury area Feb 1987 (born 5 Nov 1908)
If by the 'other family' you mean the 1937 marriage, then freebmd, as yet, is only up to the 1920s. You can look at the coverage pages to check where they are up to. When you search, try not to be too specific, as what is registered may be different to what you think you know for eg use a wide from and to date, just a county (sometimes no county), and try soundex if it is a name that could be spelled a few ways.
For the marriage you will have to look at the full indexes at ancestry or findmypast or maybe your library may have them.
Thanks for reply - not sure what you mean by Full Index - does it give parents details of there then? I am a member of Ancestry and did search for Winnie (as she was known to us) on there but couldn't find parentage.
As per the other family - I have tried to use FreeBMD and get nowhere - where am I going wrong??
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I was thinking that by 'other family' you meant the 1937 marriage. What was the 'other family'?
As she appeared to be born in 1908 there is no mother's maiden name (mmn) in the index so we can't look for a marriage. I do believe you will have to order the birth cert to get details of the parents. Unless there is a sibling who was born after the September quarter 1911.
If you think she was baptised in one of the parish churches around Chatham you can try the online parish registers at Medway Cityark (might save you having to get a birth certificate) http://cityark.medway.gov.uk/