I think I need to get birth cert for Alice & Marriage for Sackfield Mary as you suggest, may give some more info.
I have always been keen to find out what Mary's name was and I think from all your help, I am pretty certain this is her, plus all the other bits that I now have. I am sure that this is our Sackfield even though it is spelt Aspland. Sackfield doesn't appear too often in other names, it was Sackville in earlier generations. The story goes that he could read but not write when he arrived in Australia. Didn't seem to have any difficulty obtaining wives though!!!!!