HI Monica, I have tracked down Mary Handly in 1871 - she is back in Selkirk, and actually listed as Margaret. It is definately her though - age and occupation all fits, and she is listed as a widow, so this means husband William must have died between 1861 and 1871 - just can't find him, unless it is the death you mentioned, with another wife listed.....
Hello Kylie You don't know me but I was reading your post between you and GAJ about Thomas Glover. I am Thomas Glover's Great Great Great Great Grand Daughter. I presume you were seeking information about Thomas Glover and perhaps his descendants because you might be related to him also. My mother has written some material on Thomas Glover, in as much as his existence relates to our family, so if you are interrested in touching base, please reply and I'll watch for your message. Alternatively you can visit my website www.louisemann.com and my email address is in the contact area. Hope to hear from you soon. Louise