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indiapaleale
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A Big Favour , Please!
« on: Thursday 16 April 09 20:44 UTC (UK) »

My daughter died 12 years ago and was cremated  at Reading Cemetery - per her husband's wishes. Her ashes were scattered in the Garden of Remembrance at the crem - per her husband's wishes. There was no marker - per her husband's wishes.

On the day that she was cremated - Valentine's Day - it was cold and grey and awful. I never thought to take a picture.

Her birthday is coming up - May 8 - (she would have been 48 this year)  and if some kind soul could take a picture of the Garden of Rememberance for me I would be forever grateful.

I'm 6,000 miles away and don't know when I shall get back to Reading.

Thanks so much in advance.
Indi xxxx
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nanny jan
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Re: A Big Favour , Please!
« Reply #1 on: Thursday 16 April 09 21:52 UTC (UK) »

Hi Indi,

Not able to get to Reading (I live in Dorset) but found a few photos:

http://www.geograph.org.uk


Nanny Jan

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blodwen
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Re: A Big Favour , Please!
« Reply #2 on: Friday 17 April 09 12:16 UTC (UK) »

Hi  Indy,

I will ask my Mum or brother if they fancy a little trip out to Reading (they live in Uxbridge).

Can't promise, but we can try!

Viv
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matt94
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Re: A Big Favour , Please!
« Reply #3 on: Saturday 18 April 09 19:49 UTC (UK) »

Do you mean the one on Henley Road or the one on London Road?

Matt
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Lydart
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Re: A Big Favour , Please!
« Reply #4 on: Saturday 18 April 09 19:57 UTC (UK) »

I think Indi is without an internet server at the moment ... I can phone her tomorrow evening if you like ?

Let me know ...
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matt94
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Re: A Big Favour , Please!
« Reply #5 on: Saturday 18 April 09 20:01 UTC (UK) »

Yes please - I don't live awfully far from Reading, but I'd have to do it when my parents could take me - under 16.

Matt
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Lydart
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Re: A Big Favour , Please!
« Reply #6 on: Saturday 18 April 09 20:15 UTC (UK) »

OK ... if she doesn't reappear by tomorrow evening, our time (her morning) I'll call her.


You young thing you !  And a senior already !    Well done ... its nice to have some people on RootsChat that aren't all old biddies !
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matt94
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Re: A Big Favour , Please!
« Reply #7 on: Saturday 18 April 09 20:39 UTC (UK) »

Not everyone is 'old biddies' lol!

I think I may well be the youngest RootsChatter - the youngest after an 18 year old I have come across. Many of my friends shall have to pick up genealogy when they're much older  Wink

Matt
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indiapaleale
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Re: A Big Favour , Please!
« Reply #8 on: Saturday 18 April 09 23:19 UTC (UK) »

Thanks to everyone for your kind replies.

I'm not really sure which crem it is - I think it's the London Rd. one - but I could be wrong.

I do know that daughter's husband had a reception after the funeral at a pub called "The Little Waif" (I think.We didn't go - couldn't take the pain) But we passed it on our way back to the M4.

My internet is up and down at the mo - we are in the process of changing providers - sometimes it works - sometimes it doesn't! Kinda like me!

Matt94 - what a kind soul you are for such a young chap.

Love
Indi xxx



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Lydart
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Re: A Big Favour , Please!
« Reply #9 on: Sunday 19 April 09 07:58 UTC (UK) »

Oh good !    She's back online ... for the moment !

Its nice, isn't Indi, when 'the young' are really good, kind, helpful people ... I think we all are guilty of assuming anyone without a bus pass is a lout !   But not Matt94 ... he's a gem ... he'll go far !

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London: Poplett
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matt94
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Re: A Big Favour , Please!
« Reply #10 on: Sunday 19 April 09 08:32 UTC (UK) »

I think it is the Henley Road one - my Great-Grandfather, 'Grampy', as he was known, was buried in 1979 at 'a cemetery' after cremation at the same place. According to my parents, it's the Henley Road one. I don't know if the London Road one does cremations but I can't any either way.

Well there's an excuse to go to the cem - I want to see Grampy's grave  Smiley

I'm not sure when I'll be able to get there though, possibly next weekend. Is that ok? I have French coursework to do - Speaking exam on tuesday  Shocked Shocked Shocked

Matt Cheesy
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matt94
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Re: A Big Favour , Please!
« Reply #11 on: Sunday 19 April 09 08:37 UTC (UK) »

The pub - it wasn't the Wee Waif was it?

The only pub in Reading I can find is a Wee Waif so that's a possible?

http://maps.google.com/maps?hl=en&rls=com.microsoft:*:IE-SearchBox&rlz=1I7ACPW_en___GB321&q=wee%20waif%2C%20reading&um=1&ie=UTF-8&sa=N&tab=wl

It's on the Bath Road in Charvill so you probably did pass it on the way to M4  Smiley

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blodwen
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Re: A Big Favour , Please!
« Reply #12 on: Sunday 19 April 09 18:08 UTC (UK) »

Good that Matt will be able to do it.

I have just had a message that my brother will not be able to get out that way for a while.

Viv
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Re: A Big Favour , Please!
« Reply #13 on: Monday 20 April 09 19:21 UTC (UK) »

If its Henley Road  I can do it, I live in the next road.

I'll try to get up there by the weekend
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indiapaleale
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Re: A Big Favour , Please!
« Reply #14 on: Monday 20 April 09 23:55 UTC (UK) »

Hi russethouse,

After looking at pics on google - YES - I'm certain that it is the crem on Henley Rd.

It was all such a shock when it happened that I never did note the address.

If you could just take a quick pic for me of the garden - I will be forever in your debt.

If you can get a pic - send me a PM and I will give you my email.

I shall love you forever!

Indi
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