i google all kinds of forums and look for information. when i ws looking for my husbands family i had queries out all over the place, and it was just one fluke hit after a whole year that linked me to 400 years of history. but i didnt know the brittish - genealogy site was also the same as rootschat. anyway, sorry, for the no-no.
do you want me to let you know when i get my bmd? i can report to this thread for anyone interested. keeping my fingers crossed...