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jaxishere
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hello
I am very new to this so would be grateful for any help.
I had a letter last week from someone saying they are my cousin. What concerns me is the letter is typed and so is the envelope they did not even sign there name. They did enclose a SAE but that was to a c/o name/ address (which was a man and the person who sent the letter said their name was Debbie and the address was to an engineering firm. I have not made contact as it really concerns me. My cousin from my dads side of the family who still has my maiden name and the same forenames as my dad had a phone call about a month a go from someone asking him if he was my dad , he said no and gave them know more information about knowing me so since then they have found my address. So I know this person is not from my dad’s side of the family.
Also my mom was any only child so it just does not make sense.
This did though start me thinking about tracing my family from my moms side but I am hitting brick walls and because I do not really know much about them or any thing about how to go about looking them up.
My mother died when I was just 13 and I went into care. I had a gran on my mom’s side but she was housebound and unable to look after me, also the shock of my moms death caused her to become ill and eventually she lost her mind and did not know anyone and didn’t know me or that that she had even had a daughter
I have been to the history museum and traced my moms death ref through the records and newspapers (which and am contacting the local register office for the cert. On looking up the births records on the date of birth for my mom’s birthday and her name beryl Joyce smith , The only thing that is coming up is beryl J birth place hitchin ( I was not aware she came from there so not sure if this is her.) It also says her mom’s maiden name was brown.
I have traced my grans death ref, through the records and newspapers but date of birth there only says about 1899. ( I intend to get the death cert to see if it comes up with more. I have looked up births around that time in fact from 1890 to 1900 under the name brown and found nothing.
From the elector register I have traced so far traced my gran back to the 60s at the last address I knew she lived at before she died. I intend to go back to see how long she lived there and if she was there at the time of mom’s birth, which would mean the birth ref that could be my moms would not be her
From the elector register I have traced my granddads name and when he died. But not his birth ,as there are 100s of Joseph smiths and I do not know where he was born.
The odd thing though is on the death ref it has my gran a Beatrice Georgina smith but on the elector register it says Georgina B smith so I have even looked on the records for Georgina but nothing (brick wall) My gran left me money in her will, but I am unable to get a copy of this with out knowing her dob etc
I would be very grateful of any help or advice of what to do
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Smith Worcestershire
Pardoe Hartlebury Belbroughton Worcestershire
Hughes Bromsgrove Droitwich
Harris, Milton, Franklin, Grafton Gloucestershire,
Harris, EmleyCastle
Townsend Bath Somerset
Bird worcestershire
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behindthefrogs
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Do it carefully one step at a time.
If you know the date and place of your grandfather's death find that in the GRO indexes and it should give you his age. Obtaining the certificate may give you a little more.
The next step is to find their marriage and their marriage certificate might confirm their ages and you should have confirmed your grandmothers maiden name in the process. Then move on to birth certifcates. Eventually you will get back to 1901 and you can add census details to your trail. If you get stuck you may need to use brothers and sisters
David
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Living in Berkshire. From Northampton & Milton Keynes DETAILS OF THE FOLLOWING NAMES ARE IN SURNAME INTERESTS, LINK AT FOOT OF PAGE Wilson, Higgs, Buswell, PARCELL, Matthews, TAMKIN, Seckington, Pates, Coupland, Webb, Arthur, MAYNARD, Caves, Norman, Winch, Culverhouse, Drakeley. Johnson, Routledge, SHIRT, SAICH, Mills, SAUNDERS, EDLIN, Perry, Vickers, Pakeman, Griffiths, Marston, Turner, Child, Sheen, Gray, Woolhouse Census Info is Crown Copyright from www.nationalarchives.gov.uk |
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Sisterjane
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Castle Hill Huddersfield...Im Here..Where are They
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1901 Cencus re Paulines ref for birth
Deptford 1901 cencus
RG13/532-Folio 30-page46
Seldon Rd
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Alexander Brown abt 1888 Deptford, St Paul, son
Georgina Brown abt 1899 Camberwell Daughter
Henrietta Brown abt 1891 Deptford, St Paul dau
John Brown abt 1855 Bermondsey head Bricklayer
John Brown abt 1885 Deptford, St Paul son
Mary M Brown abt 1865 Deptford wife
Percy T Brown abt 1897 Camberwell son
Sydney F Brown abt 1893 Deptford, St Paul, London son
Joe
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Kershaw, Longbottom,Parvin Areas Huddersfield, Brighouse, Rastrick ,Thirsk, Sand Hutton Masters in London/Surrey Cencus information is crown copyright from www.nationalarchives.gov.uk |
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jaxishere
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hello again
thank you all for what you are coming up with
Iwish i had asked all these questions to my mom gran before they had died
I thought and now I relise I shoudnt havethat my family had been born and bread in worcester, which is where I was born and where they lived untill they died
posted by PaulineJ
Would this birth record fit?
BROWN, Georgina Beatrice 1898 December Births Camberwell (1837-1919)
Volume: 1d Page: 888
The name fits and the age is about right as it said about 1899 on death ref. Camberwell I have no idea but it could be. Is that any where near hitchin where the birth ref of my moms (might be birth cert) says she was born
joe
could those list of people be my family?
All I have for my gran is = death ref beatrice georgina smith june1/4 1981 vol 29 page 0708 district worcester
For my mom death ref beryl joyce turnbull december 1/4 1978 vol 29 page 0714
district worcester
and what might be her birth ref december beryl j smith 1/4 1933 vol 39, page 1110, born hitchin, mothers maidan name brown
and grandad death ref joseph smith december 1964, vol 9d, page 261
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Smith Worcestershire
Pardoe Hartlebury Belbroughton Worcestershire
Hughes Bromsgrove Droitwich
Harris, Milton, Franklin, Grafton Gloucestershire,
Harris, EmleyCastle
Townsend Bath Somerset
Bird worcestershire
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Only thing I can think of is maybe Debbie is a child/teenager and so has the correspondence sent to her father's workplace for vetting !!!! Or else, she's being extra cautious - which could be a family trait!