I know, aren't they great. This fact about Clive slipped out and now no-one will talk about it. Very sad. He wasn't even mentioned in a book that was written about the boer War and where the farm Abrahamskraal and Jack Malcolm were centre stage. My grandmother supplied a lot of the personal details. Even the author was unaware. But i suspect rose coloured glasses were rampent.
There is a Marriage Certificate for St Cyprian's Church in Kimberley. It was under license not banns. He was listed as a widower (incorrect - divorcee) living in Boshoff and she finally back at the family farm Abrahamskraal.
The story goes that in 1901 she had been living with her family at Bainsvlei (farm of her fiance) as Abrahamskraal was in the centre of fighting.
After the jilting of her fiance in June 1901, (also to have been married under special marriage license) who was from another well known family of standing within the community, her father had kicked her out and she had had to go and live with her sister at a farm near Modder River - could be "Perseverance" west of Bainsvlei.
Mabel remained there until after she and her father had reunited after his return from being arrested as a traitor to the Boers, (Long story), they then both returned to Abrahamskraal after the Boer War ie abt mid 1902.
Jack meanwhile went back to Australia early in 1902 to get divorced. This took awhile but he actually returned and they married in March 1903.
Upon his return to SA in late 1902, Jack initially bought a farm called Tweefontein in the Boshoff. After their marriage Mabel moved in and started their family life. Unsure when but they then moved onto Mia Mia farm in Boshoff district and then finally in 1907, Cheddar farm, part of an oldfarm called Klipdrift on the Modder River. The Wesleyan Methodist Church - Bloemfontein must have been their local as the 1st 3 children were christened there 1905-1909.
I'll start trawling the Methodist churches I think.
Anyway I think I have bored you enough with my skeleton.
Cheers
Gaye