Relax - firstly I’m not surprised that your branch of the family never knew there was an older sister, because our branch of the family never knew there was a younger sister, and two younger brothers. Indeed my Mother, her Brother and all our cousins are dumbfounded that there two Glasgow branches of the family that we never knew about.
I guess the that the fact that your branch of the family never knew of an older sister is that Margaret seems to have abandoned her daughter - my Great Great Grand Mother – called Dolina- in Thurso somewhere between 1871 and 1881. Dolina was then brought up a possible elderly relative, was in service in Wick, had her own first daughter born out of wedlock, then married my Great Grandfather and had a further 8 kids, including my Grand Mother, born 1901.
If I take you through my investigations, that may explain the background.
My Great Grandmother – Dolina Mackay was born in late March 1871 in Thurso. Her birth certificate has her mother as Margaret Mackay, and no father, i.e. illegitimate. Margaret’s address is Bank Street, Thurso on the Birth Certificate. Dolina was known in my family as Dolina Swanson and we could never work out why, until I noticed a note on her Birth certificate saying that there had been a court case to prove paternity.
In October 1871 Margaret Mackay had taken a Donald Swanson – shoemaker – to court to prove paternity, and the court found in her favour. The court records show that Margaret lived in Bank Street Thurso at the time of her daughter’s birth, just three days before the census date. Donald Swanson lived in Campbell Street, but a trawl through the census returns for Thurso in 1871 shows that there was only one Margaret Mackay recorded there, living with her cousins and aunt and uncle, all Morrison’s and all born in Eribol, Durness. Next door was a family of shoemakers, so it’s not fanciful to imagine a 36 year old Donald Swanson visiting his cobbler pals in Bank Street, and seducing a 16 year old Margaret, fresh from Durness to the excitements of Thurso.
So we have a Margaret Mackay as my GG Grandmother, recorded as living in Bank Street Thurso three days before the birth of her daughter, six months later recorded as still in Bank Street, in the court case, and is the only Margaret Mackay recorded in the census in Bank Street. Indeed she was recorded as living with her Uncle George, and his sister Ann, both Morrison’s, and two cousins, also Morrison’s, all born in Durness.
A search through records for Durness births show a Morrison Family with a George, an Ann, and a Dolina, who married an Angus Mackay and who had a daughter Margaret Ann born Durness in 1855.
There are no other Margaret MacKay’s born in Durness for five years either side of that date. Indeed Margaret was also the youngest daughter of a large family, with just one younger brother Angus.
OK – so we get a Margaret Mackay in the 1861 Census recorded as living with her parents in 1861, but recorded as aged 4. In Durine – right in the centre of Durness. We also get a Margaret Mackay aged 4 recorded as living with a Flora Mackay, in Durine in 1861. Margret is described as a “cousin”. Angus Mackay has an Aunt, of the same age, called Flora.
In 1871 we get a Margaret Mackay – recorded as aged 14 – living with her parents in Durness, We also get a Margaret Mackay recorded as 14, living with her Great Aunt Flora next door. In 1871 we also get a Margaret Mackay living with her Mothers brother and sister in Thurso aged 20. There are no other Morrison family's in Durness at that time that show that same groupings of names and ages.
I’m dammed if I can find any evidence that they are not the same person. However it’s not uncommon for the same people to be recorded as living in various locations in the same census, indeed I have it a few times on other parts of my family, especially in Caithness and Sutherland in the 1860’s and 70’s.
So 1881 census :-
Margaret Mackay – recorded as living in Durness, with her Mother, Brother and Daughter Johan, aged 1.
1891 census
Maggie Mackay recorded in in Durine, with her mother, older Brother, daughter Johan (10) and sons Donald and Eric Mcculloch – 7 and 3 respectively.
1901
Maggie Mackay living with her older brother Donald, and sons Donald and Eric Mcculloch – 18 and 14 respectively.
1911 – Margaret Mackay living alone in Durness
1929 – Margaret Mackay, father Angus Mackay, Mother Dolina Morrison, recorded as dying in the house of her son Eric McCulloch, Gibson Street, Glasgow.
So there we have it. Durness born Margaret Mackay had a daughter Dolina in Thurso in 1871, to a Donald Swanson, whilst living with her Mothers Brother and Sister. She then moved back to Durness, leaving her daughter behind, and had another daughter – Johan – in 1890. In 1891 she was living with her Mother and older brother, and daughter. She then had two sons by a McCulloch in the 1890’s, but was still living with her older brother in 1901, in Durness.
So - she did have four different kids to three different guys. Her first was when she was 16, and she abandoned her first born - my Grandmothers mother - to a relative, then moved back home to her folks. Then your Johan - again out of wedlock - and then the two McCulloch boys.
Since she seems to have moved to Glasgow between 1911 and 1929, I wonder if any of your side of the family have any stories about her?