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Title: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: KGarrad on Sunday 16 April 17 22:45 BST (UK)
I have a Frederick Gray (b 1876, Broadwell, Oxfordshire) with his wife Elizabeth (b1879, Northleach, Gloucestershire).
In 1901 they are living in Northleach.
Class: RG13; Piece: 2451; Folio: 93; Page: 19
By 1911, they have moved to Cwmcarn, Crosskeys, Newport, Monmouthshire.
Class: RG14; Piece: 32043; Schedule Number: 251

Children:
Arthur W Gray, b1897, Northleach
Beatrice L Gray, b1900, Northleach (1901) or Farmington (1911)
Norah Ellen Gray, b 1903, Abercarn, Monmouthshire

Frederick & Elizabeth have apparently been married for 14 years.

HOWEVER:
I can't find a marriage?
And I can't find any birth registrations for the children?

So, what was Elizabeth's surname?!

I bet the answer is staring me in the face, but it's really annoying! ;D
Title: Re: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: KGarrad on Sunday 16 April 17 22:53 BST (UK)
I knew this would happen!

Just found Beatrice's Birth:

GRAY, BEATRICE  LOTTIE      BLACKWELL      
GRO Reference: 1899  D Quarter in NORTHLEACH  Volume 06A  Page 411
Title: Re: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: ..claire.. on Sunday 16 April 17 22:56 BST (UK)
Hi

Yes, the man lodging with them in 1911 is her brother is it not ?

Saw them in 1891 and noticed the three year age gap and wondered if that was the case, but you beat me to an answer
Title: Re: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: KGarrad on Sunday 16 April 17 22:58 BST (UK)
Having just found her surname . . . Yes, of course :D

I've also found:
Arthur William Blackwell
June qtr 1896
Northleach Registration District
Title: Re: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: carol8353 on Sunday 16 April 17 23:01 BST (UK)
Is this their marriage?

Marriages Dec 1896 

Blackwell    Elizabeth        Pontypridd    11a   894   

Gray    Frederick George         Pontypridd    11a   894   
Title: Re: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: ..claire.. on Sunday 16 April 17 23:02 BST (UK)

I think it will be  ;D
Title: Re: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: KGarrad on Sunday 16 April 17 23:03 BST (UK)
Nice one! I was still looking in Gloucestershire! :-[

Also found:
December qtr 1902
Newport Reg. District

Gray, Norah Ellen
Title: Re: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: groom on Sunday 16 April 17 23:11 BST (UK)
Could this be the marriage? Names on the same page, right time scale.

Marriages Dec 1896   

Blackwell    Elizabeth       
Gray    Frederick George       
Pontypridd    11a   894

Whoops - sorry I missed Carol's post.  ::)
Title: Re: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: carol8353 on Sunday 16 April 17 23:14 BST (UK)

Whoops - sorry I missed Carol's post.  ::)

We're so efficient here Groom,even though it is bedtime  ;D

I was a little worried why they'd marry in Pontypridd when they were still in Glos having kids?
Title: Re: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: KGarrad on Sunday 16 April 17 23:20 BST (UK)
Like I said - the answers were all there, but I couldn't see them!
So, I wholeheartedly agree - time for bed! ;D

Found Norah on FreeBMD - but not on GRO?


Carol - I think the marriage was "away from home" because of the illegitimate birth of Arthur?
Title: Re: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: groom on Sunday 16 April 17 23:27 BST (UK)
Still a long way to go to get married, why not just go somewhere else in Gloucestershire. I wonder if they had any connection with Wales as Norah's birth was registered there?
Title: Re: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: KGarrad on Monday 17 April 17 07:42 BST (UK)
At that time, the coal mines in South Wales were recruiting - I have people on my mother's aside that moved to the Welsh Valleys from Wiltshire & Kent, to work in the mines!

Part of the Gray family moved to the Tintern area (where my F-i-L was born).
His father was born in Northleach, while uncles and aunts were born in Oxfordshire.
His grandfather and siblings were born in Teignmouth, Devon!

Many of the family ended up in the South Wales valleys, or the Forest of Dean (1920s).

So maybe not so surprising?
Title: Re: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: Capetown on Monday 17 April 17 08:03 BST (UK)
Gloucestershirebmd has

BLACKWELL Arthur W : 1896 - Northleach, Bibury (Blank for Mother's Former Name, which usually means the mother was unmarried  ***

BLACKWELL Elizabeth - mother's maiden name VINCENT : 1878, Cirencester, Northleach Bibury


1891 Census, Northleach, Glos

Charles BLACKWELL, Coal Merchant, Haulier, born Glos, Farmington
Susannah -  37 born Leicestershire, Plungar
Herbert E - 9 born Glos Northleach
Elizabeth 12 - born Glos Northleach


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Family tree online

Charles BLACKWELL/Susannah VINCENT

Herbert Edward BLACKWELL died June 1948 Caerleon, Monmouthshire



Probate

BLACKWELL Herbert Edward :  of 68 Gwyddon Road, Abercarn, Monmouthshire, died 5 April 1948.

Adminstration Llandaff 7 May to Constance Emma Dorcas BLACKBALL, Widow
Title: Re: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: KGarrad on Monday 17 April 17 09:34 BST (UK)
Now that the family I originally posted on are sorted, I have a problem further back!

Martin Gray married Mary Fowler on 29th May 1834 in Broadwell, Oxfordshire.
Children:
Mark, 1836, East Teignmouth, Devon (died 1837)
Elizabeth, 1837, East Teignmouth
Maria, 1841 East Teignmouth
Emily, 1842, East Teignmouth
William Martin, 1844, East Teignmouth
John Mark, 1845, East Teignmouth
Ellen, 1846, East Teignmouth
Hannah/Anna, 1848, East Teignmouth

The 1841 census has the family in East Teignmouth.
Class: HO107; Piece: 220; Book: 11; Folio: 13; Page: 21

On May 29th 1849, Ellen & Anna are baptised in Broadwell, Oxfordshire.
The abode of the parents is "Father's unknown; Mother's the Lunatic Asylum, Littlemore".

The children are on the 1851 census as paupers and lodgers in Broadwell, with Robert and Mary Greenhalf.
Class: HO107; Piece: 1731; Folio: 688; Page: 9

I guess that Mary, at least, is from Broadwell?
And I have no idea where Martin is from!

Anyone have any clues?
Title: Re: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: Capetown on Monday 17 April 17 09:41 BST (UK)
Marriage on Ancestry

Martin GRAY to Mary FOWLER 29 May 1834, Broadwell, Oxfordshire

witnesses:

(best guess)

Jos Raymond HENSBERGH  (James R HENSBERGH - on later census returns)
Elizabeth HENSBERGH

Transcript sent to  COURT (think this is what is says)


The marriage entry underneath of another couple a few weeks later, also says, transcript sent to Court.

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Looking at the 1841 census for Martin & Mary GRAY in Teignmouth, they both state they were not born in the Country - and there is a tick in the column which is headed, Where born, Scotland, Ireland or Foreign Parts and there is a tick for both of them.

East Teignmouth, Devon and quite close, HO107 220 12 (there is Sophia GRAY, daughter Sophia Eliza GRAY - again born in either Scotland, Ireland or Foreign parts & Elizabeth Jane Jnr aged 15.


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Ancestry  Lunatic admission records

Mary GRAY admitted 19 April 1849 Oxford and Sarah GRAY  - 16 May 1849 Oxford


1851 census for Littleworth

Transcribed as GREEN - but faint surname and looks like GRAY

Mary GRAY aged 39 - Widow (no place of birth)


1861 census for Littleworth

Mary GRAY aged 49 - place of birth Broadwell
Title: Re: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: CarolA3 on Tuesday 18 April 17 07:15 BST (UK)
On May 29th 1849, Ellen & Anna are baptised in Broadwell, Oxfordshire.
The abode of the parents is "Father's unknown; Mother's the Lunatic Asylum, Littlemore".
Ancestry  Lunatic admission records

Mary GRAY admitted 19 April 1849 Oxford and Sarah GRAY  - 16 May 1849 Oxford

OFHS has transcribed many of the discharge records from the Oxfordshire County Lunatic Asylum at Littlemore.  These are not available online.

Mary GRAY was first admitted on 19 April 1849.  She was among a group of patients discharged to Worcester County Lunatic Asylum at Powick on 6 January 1864.

Sadly this record doesn't state her age, where she was from, why she was admitted, or whether she underwent treatment continuously between 1849-64.  Her medical records, if they weren't transferred with her to Powick, should be at the Oxfordshire History Centre (OHC) as per this link: http://www.oxfordshirehealtharchives.nhs.uk/hospitals/littlemore_hospital.htm

There might be a bit more info on the OFHS CD, but I'm going out shortly so will have a look later.  In the meantime, maybe someone could verify Capetown's interpretation of the 1841 birthplaces.

Carol

P.S.  One of my rellies was in Littlemore, in fact he died there, and the predecessors of OHC emailed his records to me for an admin fee (£10?) plus £1 per page - bargain :D
Title: Re: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: KGarrad on Tuesday 18 April 17 07:51 BST (UK)
Looking at the 1841 census for Martin & Mary GRAY in Teignmouth, they both state they were not born in the Country - and there is a tick in the column which is headed, Where born, Scotland, Ireland or Foreign Parts and there is a tick for both of them.

East Teignmouth, Devon and quite close, HO107 220 12 (there is Sophia GRAY, daughter Sophia Eliza GRAY - again born in either Scotland, Ireland or Foreign parts & Elizabeth Jane Jnr aged 15.


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Ancestry  Lunatic admission records

Mary GRAY admitted 19 April 1849 Oxford and Sarah GRAY  - 16 May 1849 Oxford


1851 census for Littleworth

Transcribed as GREEN - but faint surname and looks like GRAY

Mary GRAY aged 39 - Widow (no place of birth)


1861 census for Littleworth

Mary GRAY aged 49 - place of birth Broadwell

The enumerator for that 1841 census has placed a tick in the last column for all those people NOT born in County?!
The entry in the penultimate column looks to be "N".

Thank you both for the info re Littleworth - very helpful ;D
Title: Re: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: KGarrad on Tuesday 18 April 17 08:25 BST (UK)
Records for Worcester County Lunatic Asylum, Powick state:

Patient No: 1477   Gray, Mary  Age 52, Female, Married  Occupation: Pauper
Admitted: 6th Jan 1864, abode: Littleworth Lunatic Asylum
Disorder: Mania Chronic
Discharged: 1st October 1870    Recovered

The search webpage is: http://theinfirmary.educationhost.co.uk/Search.php
Title: Re: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: Capetown on Tuesday 18 April 17 09:26 BST (UK)


When Martin GRAY married Mary - they both signed the register with the names.

When 'zooming in' on Mary's writing - the surname starts with an F and the second letter looks like an  'a' as it joins the next letter 'w' and the bottom and not the 'top'.  Ancestry has transcribed the surname as FAWLAV as the signature trails off at the end.   ? is the surname FOWLER or FAWLER/FAWLES
Title: Re: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: KGarrad on Tuesday 18 April 17 09:37 BST (UK)
It looks like Fowler to me ;D

And the GRO Indexes all show Fowler as the Mother's Maiden Name for the children'a Birth Registrations I can find.

Incidentally, the only Martin Gray I can find is one born 1808 and baptised at Medmenham, Buckinghamshire?
He can't be found on any census, and his age would fit the 1841 census?

It's not conclusive; but may be the right Martin? :-\
Title: Re: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: LizzieL on Tuesday 18 April 17 11:29 BST (UK)
Marriage on Ancestry

Martin GRAY to Mary FOWLER 29 May 1834, Broadwell, Oxfordshire

witnesses:

(best guess)

Jos Raymond HENSBERGH  (James R HENSBERGH - on later census returns)
Elizabeth HENSBERGH



James Raymond Hensburgh widower married Elizabeth Franklin spinster at Oxford St Aldates on 7 Sep 1829. James is a gamekeeper on his sons Robert, Frederick and Matthew's baptism records. On 1871 census, the family is in Derbyshire, James is a huntsman and his son Matthew is a gamekeeper.
As Martin Gray was a male servant in 1841 and an Ostler on the baptism record of the two daughters, it may be that he and James Hensburgh were servants at the same big house - possibly Mary Fowler as well.
Title: Re: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: LizzieL on Tuesday 18 April 17 11:55 BST (UK)

Incidentally, the only Martin Gray I can find is one born 1808 and baptised at Medmenham, Buckinghamshire?
He can't be found on any census, and his age would fit the 1841 census?


This Martin's parents were Mark and Maria, names that your Martin gave to his children. Mark was also the second name of his son John, so clearly an important name to him.
James raymond Hensbergh was from Hambledon only a couple of miles from Medmenham.
Title: Re: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: LizzieL on Tuesday 18 April 17 12:09 BST (UK)
Mark Gray married Maria Lovelock in Hambledon on 15 Nov 1806

Added
mark was buried at medmenham in Dec 1808, only a few month's after martin's birth

He may be the one bapt in Medmenham on 2nd on 9th Feb 1777(depending on transcript) s/o Abraham and Mary.
Title: Re: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: LizzieL on Tuesday 18 April 17 12:23 BST (UK)
I think Abraham married Mary Church in Medmenham on 5 oct 1767
and was buried there on 23 Mar 1826 age 81
possible bapt 19 Sep 1744 s/o Charles and Eleanor Gray
Title: Re: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: Capetown on Tuesday 18 April 17 12:40 BST (UK)
??


There is a Tree on Ancestry

Maria GRAY - birth 1781, Buckinghamshire England
Death: April 1855, Horsemonger Lane Gaol, Bethnal Green, London

Husband : Daniel DAVIES 1779-1849

14 May 1822 aged 41 @ Hambleden, Buckinghamshire :  Birth of Son, Mark DAVIS (1779-1849) died July 1849, London Middlesex


Daniel DAVIES married Maria GRAY - 27 October 1798, Medmenham, Bucks


Title: Re: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: LizzieL on Tuesday 18 April 17 15:09 BST (UK)
Could be related, but I can't find a baptism for Maria. She and Daniel had quite a lot of children, first one bapt at Medmenham, the others at Hambledon.  The first son is called Abraham.
In 1841 they are living in Hambledon with some of their children and Joseph and Emma who are probably grandchildren. Joseph and Emma are with their son Mark Davis in 1851 listed as nephew and niece. 
Title: Re: Gray family - Missing BMDs?
Post by: CarolA3 on Saturday 29 April 17 16:53 BST (UK)
Going back to Mary's time in Oxfordshire County Lunatic Asylum - to avoid confusing any future readers of this thread, I should have reiterated that the location was LITTLEMORE in Oxfordshire, not Littleworth which was in Berkshire until 1974.

Carol