Thanks JUDITH for all that info. I have most of it but I didn't have the info on Emily's brothers being watermen. My search results didn't show her father's occupation at time of birth being a shipping agent either so that leads me to think he went from being a shipping agent to a grocer at the time of 1841 census. Looks like their lives revolved around the maritime industry. I thought I had Joseph Lord's death in 1847 but it doesn't say he is deceased on Emily's 1849 marriage cert., just that his occ is gentleman?
Another piece to the puzzle you provided was that William Bruce snr was a clothes draper at time of son's birth before he worked as a master at Hackney Union.
Would love to know more about all their personal lives and if there are any diaries, letters or photos out there.
Anyway thanks again Judith.
SUE I did get some photos of the headstone emailed to me prob. couple of years ago but we have had so many computer problems since then that they may be lost, so I will do a search and if I can't find them I will take you up on your kind offer. Thanks Coralie