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The Lighter Side / Family Habits
« on: Yesterday at 10:22 »Good Enough for My Granddad, It's Good Enough for Me!
When it comes to family matters, do we do things because we always do those things, unthinkingly, by rote, by force of habit? I found out this week that our family does.
My wife's first husband, while still a young man, bought The TV Times every week - BBC1, BBC2 and ITV only in those days. There were some programming conflicts, and you had to be quick to change channels so as not to miss either the start, or the finish.
He meets, courts, and then marries the woman who later became my wife. After a while, a baby son was born. There was an accident at work for which the company was to blame. While off work, recovering from broken bones, it was discovered that he had terminal bowel cancer. A long lingering illness till the end.
The widow and son carried on with their lives till I arrived on the scene. We become a family. Eventually, step-son leaves home, marries and starts his own family. Next January he will be 40.
We have arrived at yesterday. A throwaway remark by either my wife, or I, led to a thunderclap of realization - like St Paul on the Road to Damascus. Between us, we have been buying The TV Times for over 40 years and NO ONE READS IT! It goes in the rack and 4 weeks later goes out to the recycling.
I am happy to say that we have given up the habit - cold turkey. I will let you know if either one of us gets withdrawal symptoms ...