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« on: Friday 06 April 18 11:27 BST (UK) »
hi all
My nana recently passed away and this is a complex and sad case im trying to decipher.
My nana gave birth to 3 children in the 50's with her first husband, John. after the 3rd child was born my nana and John split up. He took the eldest girl but the 2 younger ones went to live with my nana. She found love again and struggled to feed the 2 kids with her not working and her new guy in the armed forces, money was tight. Her first husband never helped her with any funds. ONe day she went to his asnd demanded he help feed the kids who were getting thin. The mother in law dragged the kids inside and the ex went out to beat my nana. The front door closed and my nana never saw the kids again until years after.
Somehow, Johns Mother Mary (who hated my nana) got her sent away for 6 months for Neglect which is why she never saw her kids again. My nana never stopped searching and her Mother in law was quite high up in the system and knew people. They went into hiding and eventually, from what we found out, the children all go taken off of John and his mother and put into a care home in the Quarriers home in Bridge Of Weir Scotland in the mid 50's.
Basically when they were in their teens, they found nana and said they were told nana was dead. They didn't stay close and all drifted apart as nana had her new family and these kids were angry at my nana they believed she let them go).
50 years on, i get a call from a guy saying he is nanas son and he found my tree on Genes Reunited. he visits a few times in the last 7 years (less than a handful). Nana was diagnosed with dementia and with my dad poorly and aunt living in Scotland, i started caring for her. i got her into a residential home and visited all the time to care for her needs. She broke her neck in a fall and ended up in hospital for 7 weeks before dying of starvation! (dementia caused her to depress her self into not eating). not one of the kids from her earlier life visited.
When nana died, she didn't have much left as all her funds paid for her living costs in the home. what she did have left was under 500 pound and she expressed this was to go to an animal charity which my aunt and dad agreed. Until in comes the children from before! the vultures!
The point of this story is im looking into whether these children were actually still my nanas kids by law. They were taken from their parents and placed into an orphan home so somewhere down the line my nanas rights and their rights must've been relinquished?
How do i find out if they have rights to claim this measly £500!? I want to know if my nana was legally still bound to them.
Appreciate any advice - no judgements please. life was very different back then in Scotland.
Thank you in advance