While you wait for the baptism some censuses to help fill in gaps
1861 census RG9 1263 folio 135
Browns Lane Holme Hale Norfolk
Robert Barker 42 Holme Hale, Norfolk, Head Married Ag lab
Ann Barker 30 Holme Hale, Norfolk, Wife Married
John Barker 16 Holme Hale, Norfolk, Son Ag lab
Sophia Barker 12 Holme Hale, Norfolk, Daughter
Sarah Barker 9 Holme Hale, Norfolk, Daughter
George Barker 6 Holme Hale, Norfolk, Son
Walter Barker 5 Holme Hale, Norfolk, Son
Eliza A Barker 2 Holme Hale, Norfolk, Daughter
Henry Savage 85 Bradenham Norfolk Father in Law Widower Formerly bricklayer
Marriages Dec 1851
Barker Robert Swaffham 13 783
SAVAGE Ann Swaffham 13 783
1851 census HO107 1831 404
Robert Barker 31 Holme Hale, Norfolk, Head Widower Farmer 6 acres land
John Barker 6 Holme Hale, Norfolk, Son
Sarah Barker 4 Holme Hale, Norfolk, Daughter
Sophia Barker 2 Holme Hale, Norfolk, Daughter
Mary Barker 33 Holme Hale, Norfolk, Sister Unmarried Housekeeper
Mary Ann Barker 4 Holme Hale, Norfolk, Sister?
Marriages Mar 1843
BARKER Robert Swaffham 13 451
HEYHOE Susan Swaffham 13 451
1841 census HO107 773/12 folio 11 page 17
Holme Hale Norfolk
John Barker 40 Norfolk Ag lab
Ann Barker 20 Norfolk
Robert Barker 20 Norfolk Male Servant
adult ages rounded down to the nearest 5 on the 1841 census
1871 census RG10 1871 folio 29
Holme Hale Norfolk
Robert Barker 51 Holme Hale, Norfolk, Head Married Ag lab
Ann Barker Robert 40 Holme Hale, Norfolk, Wife Married
Walter Barker 15 Holme Hale, Norfolk, Son Farmer's groom
Anna Barker 12 Holme Hale, Norfolk, Daughter
Stephen Barker 9 Holme Hale, Norfolk, Son
Henry Barker 6 Holme Hale, Norfolk, Son
Regards
Valda