What do you all do when you've run out of leads, stumped where to search next, exhausted all the obvious avenues?
The man I'm looking for is almost certainly my husband's grandfather.........up till recently nobody had any idea who he might be as my husband's dad was illegitimate.
Our mystery man was either born in 1903 or 1905 depending on which certificate you refer to - death or marriage
He was apparently called Sidney but of the four Sidney's born between 1902 and 1906 two died after 1984 and the other two don't have a father called Robert (name of father according to marriage certificate). Our "Sidney" died in a1946.
He was living in the Islington/Edmonton area at his marriage in 1935 but no one with his surname "Dilley" is recorded on the electoral registers for Islington between 1920 and 1935 where our mystery man finally turns up with the correct spouse but called "WILLIAM" not Sidney.
Then, bizarrely when his widow (my husband's gt aunt) went to claim her widow's pension............it appears he already had a wife still living and she had been awarded the pension instead.
So now I'm stumped. His name doesn't appear to have been Sidney and I'm not even convinced it was William. He may or may not have come from north London. He may not have actually been EITHER of the ages on his certificates. Nobody knows the name of his first wife
1946 isn't even that long ago. What research sources do I need to look at? Where can I go next?
Any and I do mean
ANY ideas would help. To have suddenly discovered my husband's grandfather and then learn no more about him is sooooooooooooo frustrating!