Hi Carol ,
Popped into Library this Morn.
Unable to access Teynham at mo so looked for Tonge (or Tong in old spelling.)
Tonge Parish Registers
There are no surviving PR.s for Tong (old Spelling in use at that era). However there are incomplete Bishops Transcripts.
Checking through them I found
Christenings for:-
Thomas Son of William and Mary Jarrett Jan 2 1814
Jesse Son of William and Mary Jarrett Oct 29 1815
Mary Dau of William and Mary Jarrett May 11 1817
Caroline Dau of Mary and William Jarrett April 28 1822
I had a really close look but could not find any more christenings as I thought there should have been another between Mary and Caroline.
Looking for the Marriage of William and Mary I found .
Marriage between:- William Jarrett (Widower) & Mary Barrett (Spinster ) 15 Aug 1813
Witnesses Thomas Parker & Richard Waghorn.
All data here sourced from viewing Micro Films of documents at County Library.
In the mean time I now think that Amelia is probable a paper person born of a transcription error between Pr,s and GRO records .
Have you sent for the Marriage cert
Marriage Jan Qtr 1840 Faversham 5 215 Jesse Jarrett - AMELIA(Mildred ) Anderson
That will at least give you parents and Church they were married in.
We will sort this out in the end
Regards Rog.