Thanks for responding to the message! I have the children so far as follows:
Alfred Edmund Puxty 1911 –
Jessie M Puxty 1913 – 1914 (Would this be the Jessie you have as older?)
Frank William Puxty 1915 – 1981
Charles A Puxty 1917 – 1996
Violet N Puxty 1922 –
William F Puxty 1925 – 2002
George Puxty 1928 – 1944
Dorothy R Puxty 1931 – 1944
Norah A Puxty 1939 – 1944
Was Jane married prior to Alfred or was she a single mother with Harry?
I haven't looked into them recently - have been chasing another family tree - but I admit I was fresh running out of ideas!! I have Jane in the Halstead area from Alfreds birth certificate that I obtained for 1911 and also from 1919 in Halstead (Kent) villages register of electors that is at Sevenoaks library in their resources section. I thought that she may possibly be the same Jane Wilson that was born (1887) in the Goudhurst area (South West Kent about 20 miles from Hastings) to parents Jane and William as that is close to where Alfred grew up (Flimwell) and could explain how they met (I have gone off the Scotland theory). This one has an older brother William (Bill?) and a younger one Frederick (I haven't spotted an Edith). Other siblings possible could be Beatrice, James, Charles, George, Sarah, Elizabeth, Robert, Florence, Ellen from what I have got from census records of this family.
I may have Jane on the 1911 census also if the above is the right one.
Do you have access to Ancestry at all?