Hi Marama,
I don't know if the following might be of help. Sykes book of Remarkable Events has the death of Samuel Donkin at Great Tosson on May 4 1791 at 102. It also has the following:
The entry for 7 June 1750 says
"Was married at Rothbury, Mr William Donkin, a considerable farmer of Tosson, to Miss Eleanor Shotton, of the same place. The entertainment on this occasion was very grand, there being provided no less than 120 quarters of lamb, 44 quarters of veal, 20 quarters of mutton, a great quantity of beef, 12 hams, with a suitable number of chickens &c., which was concluded with 8 half ankers of brandy made into punch, 12 dozens of cyder, a great many gallons of wine, and 90 bushels of malt made into beer. The company consisted of 550 ladies and gentlemen, who were diverted with the music of 25 fiddlers and pipers, and the whole was concluded with the utmost order and unanimity."
Sorry, couldn't resist quoting the whole thing....some party and no raucous behaviour!!
David Dippie Dixon's Upper Coquetdale says this: "For upwards of a century, the Donkins, a well known Northumbrian family, farmed at Great Tosson. Shortly before 1720, Samuel Donkin, the Patriarch, came into Coquetdale and settled at Great Tosson. He died at 102."
Janet