Thank you very much to cousins captainbeecher and kingskerswell for their information and scrutiny of what I write. I appreciate this.
We had never known Catherine Cain (Cairns) as Catherine Kane. I have cousins here who are in their 80s and remember a lot about James' life in Australia, as much information had been passed down by their parents and grandparents. When I started to try to find out things in Ireland, I had information about Catherine from her death certificate. Catherine's death certificate states that she was born in Limerick, but married in Londonderry. The informant is her brother-in-law William Buchanan. You must realise that they had thick Northern Irish accents and the the Registrar of the death was James Johnston who was either English or Australian. In Beaufort where William lived, it was always understood that he came from a place in Londonderry called Slothmanis. On the back of James Buchanan's son Herbert's marriage certificate it is written that James came from Strathmanis Island. From these two names, interpreted incorrectly by people in the 1800s with an Australian accent and no knowledge of Ireland, I finally located Slaghtmanus, Londonderry, Northern Ireland.
Limerick troubled me. There was a great religious and geographical divide between Protestant and Catholic Ireland. Catherine with a 'C' is the Protestant spelling of the name Katherine. Used with a 'K' means Katherine is usually a Catholic name. The surname Kane is also a predominantly Catholic name. This didn't look correct to me. The Buchanans were such staunch Protestants up until about 1960 that marriage to a Catholic caused serious problems and had severe consequences. There were several instances of this that I know of. I am so pleased this is not the case today.
I could never find Catherine in Limerick. What would a Protestant be doing in Limerick? I thought it unlikely also that James would be traipsing around the countryside looking for a wife. When he moved to Stawell in the 1890s, James called himself a Blacksmith. I also knew that Catherine was older than James. Her immigration record puts her DOB at around 1818.
On this behavioural basis, and, as I couldn't find Catherine under Kane in Limerick, I started searching for Catherine in Lower Cumber. I located a copy of the Census in 1831 and saw that there was a Cairns family in Listress - right around the corner from Slaghtmanus and Highmoor. I then found her, and then found the marriage record for Catherine and James. It is very true that the names of their fathers do not match. However, the Cairns family in Listress has James Cairns, and a James is listed as a father on the marriage certificate. There are always inconsistencies in names on certificates due to the level of literacy and who in the family uses which name, in order to identify themselves separately from another member of the family using another name. Many family names are also accidentally transposed on Certificates. In the Buchanan family in Australia, there are several generations of men who have the names William James, or James William.
I am very happy to leave it open that I may be wrong about Catherine's birth certificate. It is interesting that the birth certificate for James and Catherine's son, little William James Buchanan, predates their marriage. On little William's immigration record in early 1853, his age is given as three, and his birth record states he was born in 1849. What can be the reason for James and Catherine having a baby out of wedlock, particularly when the Presbyterian church have been so strongly against baptism for illegitimate children? (mind you, it is lovely to know that we are a normal family. James' daughter Augusta had a baby at 14 in Stawell) Maybe there wasn't a Minister in Slaghtmanus at the time. I don't know. There is a great history in Australia of couples in the bush just getting on with it and baptising the children in a couple of years' time when the Minister finally rode into town.
I will post this and keep going. It may be getting too long.