JenB I think we crossed posts.
Very confused now...
Joseph's censuses give 1851 Lanchester, 1861 Romaldkirk, 1871 Lanchester, I suspect he was born in Romaldkirk and that Lanchester was more like a borough??? This is where maps aren't that helpful. Reeth where Joseph and Mary married is very near Healaugh.
Think West Butsfield is a red herring
Here are the details of the two marriages.
Healaugh is not far from Romaldkirk
11 Nov 1820 Romaldkirk
Joseph Willis of this Parish bachelor and Ann Kipling of Baldersdale and of this Parish spinster. By Licence with consent of those whose consent is required. Thos Bligh, curate. Both signed. Witnesses: Samuel Blair and Thos Robinson, both signed. (both also witness at other marriages)
Burial Ann Willis on 10 May 1838 age 41 of Lowg… (could be Lowgarth? though it did look more like Lowgenthe), Romaldkirk.
Banns:
Joseph Willis of this Parish and Mary Bagshaw of the Parish Reeth Swaledale – 25 April, 2 May & 9 May 1841. (the vicar/curate wrote Bagshaw)
Marr 13 May 1841:
Joseph Willis of age Widower, Hind, of Romaldkirk. Father – Thomas Willis, farmer.
Mary Bagshow of age Spinster, of Healaugh in Grinton. Father – Joseph Bagshow, miner.
Both signed. (Mary signed Bagshow rather than the Bagshaw written in the Banns entry) Witnesses – Leonard Holme, Thomas Raine, both signed. Vicar J Mannier.