Hi JaneyCanuck....
this is what I have....
In 1851 census, its spelled Cary but with correction, Carey, living East Nissouri, Oxford County. with first wife Mary.
In 1861 census, its Philip Carrey with wife Mary, living St. Marys, Perth County.
Also in 1861 census, Sarah is listed as Sarah Hodgets. She came to Canada in 1853.
In 1871 census, its PHILLIP CARNY, with second wife, Sarah, living St. Marys, Perth County.
In 1881 census, who knows, can't find them.
In 1891 census, Philip & Sarah, family are in St. Marys, Perth County. (spelled Carey)
In 1901 census, Philip & Sarah, with family are in St. Marys, Perth County. (spelled Carey)
Philip & Mary (nee Golds, born about 1817), married in England.
Children of Philip & Mary...
Spouses names in brackets...
Harriet - born about 1835 - died 1906 Michigan (George H. Richardson, born about 1818 New York, not his first marriage)
Jane - born about 1836 - died 1913 Perth County (Edwin George Johnson, born about 1835)
Frances - born about 1840 - died 1909 Michigan (David Ira Harris, born about 1833)
Sarrah - born about 1842 - died 1924 Perth County (Martin Nutt, born about 1835)
Elizabeth - born about 1844 - died 1908 Stratford (no marriage found)
Philip & Sarah (nee Hodges, born 1835, Ledbury Herefordshire, parents James & Margaret Hodges, died 1923, see Sarah's death registration)
Children of Philip & Sarah
Spouses names in brackets...
Annie - born about 1865 - (William John Cook, born 1872, son of William Charles Cook & Hannah Evans)
George William - born about 1868 - (Julia Laforge, born about 1867, daughter of Charles Laforge & Sarah Jane Eveland)
Lily Susan - born about 1869 - (Horace G. Nutt, born about 1868, son of Martin Nutt & Sarrah Carey, sarah was daughter of Philip & Mary)
Lucy Margaret - born about 1872 - (Charles F. Chantry, born about 1867, Minnesota, son of William Chantry & Harriet Bartholamew)
Louise - born about 1873 - (no marriage found)
James Philip - born about 1878 - (no marriage found)
William - born about 1880 - (no marriage found)
As to Lucy Margaret, I have no idea when or where she and Charles married...they both died in Santa Clara California.
Since Louis, James Philip and William can't be found, i am assuming they went to California too...
Any further elaboration on the above or corrections would be appreciated.
Thanks...
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