seeking the grave of micheal budden

[marcie dean]

him upen I was 6 I had boyfriend. his name was micheal, recently I attempted to look him up on the death registry as he died in 1959. only to find that he had a middle name that I knew nothing about. I should have realized as his dad was frank. I still to this day do not know where he is buried wod ask for help in finding hs grave , so that I ca my goodbeyes say and show my respects to his memory after ore than 40 yrs. I was nor allowed by my family to go to gis funeral, his mother killed him when she lost her baby and her husband was playing away from home.my family thought it would be too much for me to deal with as we had already had to put up with te papers calling at our door to speak to me. my nan slammed the door in this womans face. she deserved it too. >:(I woulike to find out where he is buried thougif anyone can help I would appreciate it

[KGarrad]

Presumably, he didn't die in England/Wales?
I can't see a death on FreeBMD?

Knowing where he died might help someone to tell you where his grave is likely to be?

[Nettie]

You said you weren't allowed to attend the funeral but do you recall where the funeral was held? Was there a local cemetery?

[marcie dean]

no it was my family that would not allow me to go  and I never knew where he lived residentially, but the main part of his relatives lived across the road from me, his grandmother, and his aunts uncles cousins and their other relatives were living off off the road adjoiningerickson road.poss wimborne road, cant remember, poole lane and  kinson road .so I dont know if there was a church or cemetary  nearby to where they lived, although their grandmother, granny budden  had built them a house/ bungalow at the bottom of her garden.but due to micheals' death they never did move in he took great pleasure in showing me his bedroom, so excited he was. showed me the whole of the bungalow and seemed to be very happy to be moving closer to where I lived. that was the exact day he died.

[nanny jan]

Where did he die?  There is no death registration for him in England/Wales.


Nanny Jan

[PaulineJ]

Only thing anywhere near it is the 1960 death of a 8-y-old Michael W budden on dec qtr (poole, dorset)

There is also a 53-y-old Frank Budden who died there in 1959.

[aghadowey]

If it's Bournemouth then Kitson Kinson Cemetery is the nearest to those streets.

[nanny jan]

If it's Bournemouth then Kitson Cemetery is the nearest to those streets.

I think that might be Kinson.

[aghadowey]

Yes, have fixed the typo