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1881 census Address, St, Enochs Hall, Bothwell, Lanark, Scotland,
Ebenezer McAllister, Head, Land Stewart, M. age 26 years, M. born Kilpatrick, Fleming, Dumfries,
Augusta McAllister, Wife, M. age 25 years, F. born England,
James McAllister, Son, age 2 years, born, Bothwell, Lanark,
Thomas McAllister, Brother, Commercial Clerk, U. age 22 years, Born Kilpatrick, Fleming, Dumfries,
Matthew McAllister, Brother, Commercial Clerk, U. age 19 years, born Kilpatrick, Fleming, Dumfries.
There is a marriage on Scotlandspeople 1878. Bothwell, Lanark, of Ebenezer McAllister, and Augusta Clark.
There is only one birth for a Ralph McAllister, on Scotlandspeople, years 1881. to 1899. this birth is 1893, of all places Bothwell, Lanark.
The 1861 census Address Gillshaws, Kilpatrick- Fleming, Dumfries,
McAllister James, Head, M. age 34 years, M. Farm Overseer, born Dumfries,
McAllister Mary Ann, Wife, M. age 31 years, F. born Annan, Dumfries,
McAllister William, Son, age 8 years, Scholar, M. born Cummertrees, Dumfries,
McAllister Ebenezer, Son, age 6 years, Scholar, M. born Annan, Dumfries,
McAllister James, Son, 4 years, M. born Kilpatrick, Fleming, Dumfries,
McAllister Thomas, Son, age 2 years, M. born Kilpatrick, Fleming, Dumfries,
McAllister Isabella, Daur, age 2 years, F. born Kilpatrick, Fleming, Dumfries,
McAllister Mary Ann, Daur, age 10 Months, F. born Kilpatrick, Fleming, Dumfries.
Most of the births for this couple are on Familysearch.
Parents James McAllister, and Mary Anne Graham.
What age was Mary Jenkins, when she married William Hughes, in 1890. William, age may also be helpful.
Regards,
Jonn.