I J Disney I do appreciate the clear irony, especially as we seem to put more importance on the male line of primogeniture. However, if, in the course of your research, through DNA analysis, you start to suspect that your grandfather or great grandfather isn't who the paper documentation claims, do you continue to pursue what the gentleman's wife knew or what the documentation says?
3 years ago I found out that my grandfather wasn't who I thought he was for 50 years, and I am now researching in a different direction, but, as my grandfather turned out to be actually my great grandfather, I am still researching the original line. I am also investigating the family deception.
If you had a married Victorian lady ancestor who had just one child by a secret lover, wouldn't you be more interested in the background of the secret lover than in that of her married cuckolded husband? Surely you would prune everyone on the branch of your tree earlier than the husband? You might keep the husband, but surely none of his ancestors? A man hears what he wants to hear and disregards the rest, said Paul Simon.
PS, while I'm on, the link in my comment at 17:15 yesterday is correct. It does not go to the same video that I referred to near the beginning of the thread.
Martin