Hi Brigau
You have been extremely helpful, thank you indeed!
It had never occurred to me that the 1831 and the 1843 'Southfields' might be different farms, this certainly clears up my bewilderment in that regard. And excellent that you managed to find James Stenhouse's will.
And yes, I've already seen the alimony court case but thank you for bringing it to my attention again. Lucy Ford is my ancestor through her son by John, Robert Wilkie, and she was originally one of the Wilkie family's house servants, when the unfortunate (or rather should I say 'fortunate' since I wouldn't exist otherwise!!) deed was done. It was by means of this court case that I managed to dig deeper into the Wilkie family, knowing that they lived on a farm named Southfield.
Poor Lucy! Left with a baby by John and other than the aliment he was required to pay by the court it doesn't look like he took anything else to do with her. Just as Lucy went on to marry a man with the surname Wallace, John went on to marry Isabella Marshall daughter of Mr Marshall Esq., a merchant from Dundee. At least Robert was recognised as the son and carried the name Wilkie, which I suppose is the only silver lining from this sordid little affair - that and the fact that it eventually led to me of course!
Very many thanks Brigau, you have been uncommonly helpful to me!