Hi Carolanne, dobfarm and John,
Firstly, many thanks to you all for your kind replies - I'm very grateful for all your efforts on my behalf, and as usual, you have come up with some great info/advice.
I obtained the info re the tombstone from a source about 2 years ago and at the time it contradicted some of the other data I had on this family, so I've been sitting on it. However, I have now been researching this line intensively over the past few months, and what I really wanted, was to see if it could be verified.
Thanks for the info re Skel Cemetery; the fact that it was only opened in 1887 means that any tombstone in there cannot be for the above Joseph and Sarah Gawthorp (But, it could be that my source was wrong about the Cemetery/Churchyard!).
(The surname Gawthorp is making research difficult, because, I think that it has, at times, been morphed, into other variations especially Goldthorp.)
The 1833 Bradford burial is not the right one, as he was 38 when he died, so too young for my Joseph Gawthorp, but thanks anyway - it is good to be able to eliminate it.
re the 1841 census for Skel:
There is a Sarah GAWTHORP age 60 Publican - she is the above Sarah Whoffendal
AND
Joseph GOLDTHORP age 40 Publican (also married to a Sarah)
I now think that the tombstone that this post is about is theirs, but it is in High Hoyland graveyard, NOT Skel Cemetery?
So, thanks to you, I think that the problem has been solved,
BUT! I still cannot find a burial for Joseph, husband to Sarah Whoffendal, somewhere between about 1820 - 1841, which is what I am really after, and was the reason why I was so keen to get info re this tombstone!
Thanks very much again for all your help,
Chris