Hi everybody,
what are the rules exactly for witnesses to a marriage? Or are there none?
I have one weird thing in a marriage in a rather complicated family, who moved all over the place from Scotland through Ireland and Lancashire to end up in London. I have located at least 6 or 7 siblings, only two of them (!) have a birth register. I based the relations between them on - among other hints - the witnesses to their marriages and the names of their children and grandchildren.
There is one person who appears at least twice as a witness to a marriage of her siblings: once in 1809, once in 1818. I am sure it is the same girl, her signature is almost exactly the same on both documents.
When I look at the other children, there is a gap around 1800 (there is one born in 1797, and the next in 1804). It is possible that she was born around that date.
This would mean, though, that she was only 9 years old at the time of the 1809 marriage of her sister. Before dismissing that: she signed as a third witness. The marriage certificate is also signed by both her parents (= also parents of the bride), her signature is a bit on the side.
The signature on the other marriage, at age 18, is clearly done with a steadier hand. There she signed with her brother-in-law, the groom of the 1809 marriage.
Is it possible that she would have "signed" the marriage certificate together with her parents just because they wanted to amuse a young girl? It is also the first marriage in the family, it's the eldest sister who gets married. She must have been very proud, since her mother couldn't write and signed with an X. Hers is right next to that. Dad could write though, and they (dad and both daughters) have the same capital "G".
Or is that something which would be absolutely impossible, making the marriage invalid etc?
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this!
Tom