Yes the census and baptisms are that family.
There is a separate posting from about 3 years ago, where I established contact with an ancestor of one of the family, the Leixlip site with lists of household was very useful and did actually suggest that James had some of his siblings or relatives in Leixlip, as there was continuity of house occupation.
Having looked at the actual parish record this evening ( real surprise to find it on line) , sometimes the fathers name James appears to be a variant , unless the clerk emphasised the last loop of M of james. It looks fairly consistent with other forenames.
Sadly the specific record I was looking for, that of Kate or Kathleen from 30th Oct 1869 in Leixlip has a very poor quality scan of her name, the mothers name looks like Francisca, that was expected, as the birth cert says Frances.
Many thanks for your help, it seems the record of their marriage could possibly be somewhere, but then again possibly lost, if it is pre 1864.
