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I would put other trees aside and work from the known to the unknown, also bearing in mind that unfamiliar names can be recorded in the most incomprehensible way to modern eyes and that ages can be fluid either by accident or by design. The informant reporting a death may simply not have known the age of the deceased and taken a "best guess" approach. Ag Labs were often only employed on a farm for a year and moved around a lot.
You know from the 1851 census that your Henry T was born in Graves Lane (a hamlet in Edingley) and from the 1861 census that he was born in Headenley. A check of the Edingley PRs gives you Henry, son of Thomas and Elizabeth T bpt 20/2/1805. This is your man.
At his marriage Henry was of the parish of Upton and Hannah Warsop was of the parish of Budby.
Subject to confirmation the rest of the family might then be
Phillimore - Thomas T of Cuckney mar Elizabeth Bucklow of Farnsfield 1/12/1794 Farnsfield
Children
John 17/1/1796 Norton Cuckney
Ann 24/1/1798 Kneesall
Thomas 13/4/1800 Scawby, Lincs
William 25/7/1802 Scawby, Lincs
Henry 20/2/1805 Edingley
Mary 13/4/1807 Edingley
Elizabeth 6/5/1810 Farnsfield
Sarah 25/10/1812 Farnsfield bur 1814 Farnsfield
George 15/4/1816 Farnsfield
Askham burial Thomas T 1841 b 1769
1841 Census Hayton, Notts (??two sisters in law)
Elizabeth T b 1777-1781
Elizabeth Bucklow b 1777-1781
1851 Census Askham
Elizabeth T age 78 (1773) mother born Farnsfield
William T age 46 (1805) son born Sturton, Lincs
Touching to note that Henry had a son who he called Thomas in 1841, the same year that his father Thomas died.
Derbys: Ward, Hopkinson, Bradley, Birds, Clarke, Taylor, Daykin, Gent, Vardy, Cotterill, Stocks, Godber, Dronfield, Charlesworth, Bonsall, Purseglove
Notts: Clarke, Freeman, Kitchen, Allcock, Housley, Swanwick, Berrisford, Farnsworth, Antcliffe
Staffs: Nutt, Bowring
Yorks: Holling, Fish, Kay, Hardy
Lincs: Plummer, Broughton, Wellbourne