Hi Doverog,
Yep Doverog, I spent this evening rechecking all my research and it was orignally correct with regard to the 2 Marys. I am glad you agree. I think the one indicator is one son was buried at St Margaret's at Cliffe before Mary 2's birth.
Also Mary's sister Jane marries Thomas Rogers at West Cliffe a few months after Mary marries Richard Redman (entry is next in book and on same page).
I made a note of all the Susan / Susannah Lushingtons over 130 year span, to work out a possible birth place (or area) of the wife of James. I have roughly worked out who the other Susan / Susannah Lushingtons were possibly related to. I will do more work on that over next few days etc.
JAMES MATSON's WIFE IS NOT:
I know that she didn't come from Dymchurch. We can discount Edward and Susan Lushington and their children (Susan, Mary Robert, Robert 2).
We can discount a Susannah Lushington wife of Robert Lushington, buried at Dymchurch on 14 May 1700.
We can discount Sousanna / Seusanna Lushington who was married to John Lushington at Leeds, Kent. They had daughters Elenor and Mary.
We can discount Susannah Lushington who married David Lesley in 1725.
We can discount Susan Lushington who married Rev William Russell at Eythorn and Alkham.