I have asked about her twice before on RootsChat links below in 2014 & 2015 however I would put it out to the forum again in case anyone has any new ideas.
http://www.rootschat.com/forum/index.php?topic=717223.0http://www.rootschat.com/forum/index.php?topic=680593.18Just to recap her life events
Census 1851 Colshaw Hollingsclough with Helen Lomas (Pheobe aged 7)
Census 1861 Colshaw Hollingsclough with Helen Lomas (Pheobe aged 17)
Census 1871 Colshaw Hollingsclough with Helen Lomas
Census 1881 Winterside Hollingsclough
Census 1891 Hope Cottage
1901 Chapel en le Frith
1911 School House Burbage (visitor) to Urban & Mary Jane Flander
1st Marriage 1864 Earl Standon Derbyshire to Isaac Wain
2nd Marriage 1879 Burbage to William Bennet
Her children are Ann 1865 from Isaac Wain
Fredrick 1869, Ellen 1872, Ernest 1874 (unknown fathers)
John 1882, George 1883, William 1889 from William Bennet
From the information above I estimate that she was born 1843/44/45 (she was 20 at her 1st marriage in 1864
Since this time I have bought Pheobe`s1st marriage certificate, there is no entry for her father and the witness are Joseph Goodwin & Harriet Wain(both her husbands relatives)
She also does not provide her fathers name on her second marriage.
I have also had Staffordshire Archives check to see if she was born in a Staffordshire workhouse, but they could find no record. They also checked the BTs for Hartington & Earl Sterndale 1840 – 1850 but without result.
Perhaps if she is the witness at some one else's wedding this could prove a link with a relative but I have not found anything like that yet.
Any ideas on how to connect her with some relative would be welcome, I was thinking there must be some other official records that she could be on.
By the way she was linked to a Jane Ferniough in the roots chat
http://www.rooschat.com/forum/index.php?topic=680593.18