Hi Pansypetal, are you aware a ‘Sarah ‘and a ‘Philip’ who are tree owners on
www.GenesReunited.co.uk have details of your family. Phillip has a Patrick b1800 ireland, Sarah doesn’t, but both have William and more recent entries I think to see or you have to join and then ask permission to view the tree. The same website has William in Essex Regiment 44th and also 56th Foot
Are you a member of
http://search.ancestry.co.uk/cgi-bin/sse.dll?db=CampaignMedalRolls&gss=sfs28_ms_r_db&new=1&rank=1&gsfn=william&gsfn_x=0&gsln=steele&gsln_x=0&_F0005C50=56th%20Foot&MSAV=1&MSV=0&uidh=000findmypast website has the records of the Chelsea pensioners perhaps Ancestry has as well
The 1871 census gives Anne Allen b 1834 Somerset
children from familysearch.com
1. William J Steele b 1866 Essex if b 1865 Colchester Essex is in a tree belonging to Sarah
seehttp://www.GenesReunited.co.uk/tree/results/steele/william%20?memberkey=0&yearofbirth=1866&yearofbirthrange=1&birthplace=essex
2. Grace L Steele b 1867 Hampshire might be different if in a tree belonging to Sarah who says b Colchester
3. Edith Steele b 1869 Middlesex
The website
https://www.freebmd.org.ukhas an entry for William jameslast qtr 1865 Cochester but no entries obvious to me for Grace l There is a Grace Lillian entry but not right years. or Edith
Irish Tithe Applotment books 1823-1837
no Steele found in Kilmore civil parish or in Saintfield civil parish
http://freepages.genealogy.rootsweb.ancestry.com/~rosdavies/ John STEEL . Kilmore & Magheradrool & Killyleagh son of Patrick Steel; married Agnes/ Nancy Moore 7 Apr 1853 in Kilmore; father of Grace b. 3 Oct 1869 (regd. Ballynahinch) & Henry b. 24 Aug 1874 (regd. Killyleagh) CR[Could John be abrother
Miss Mary STEEL . Saintfield wife of John McFarlane; mother of James b. 1871 CR
Samuel STEELE . Comber & Saintfield husband of Ann Jane Kirk ; father of Isabella b. 12 Jan 1868 & Mary b. 11 Jan 1871 & regd. Saintfield, Elizabeth b. 25 Jan 1874
William STEEL . ? born Co. Down; a Protestant; aged 20, joined the Royal Irish Constabulary (service #5116) in 5 Feb 1844 ; posted to Co. Westmeath FHL # 856058
I found a Still in the Flaxgrowers, wrong place but I went back to ros davies who also refers Still to her Steele subdatabase
I did not search PRONI, lecale familyhistory, emerald ancestors, ancestryireland, Raymonds
County Down Website, etc etc
Good luck onwards