themonkeymonkey, first check out
www.workhouses.org.uk/PeterheadThat'll confirm the boss of the poorhouse, and you'll see there that Aberdeen City Archives have the admission records (for which you can purchase copies):
PD2/PH/2/1
Register of Inmates, 3May1861 - 5Jun1900, with admission date, name, designation (cook, spinster, imbecile), religion, parish chargeable, reason for removal (adopted, died) and date.
PD2/PH/3
Admissions Register (14May1875 - 11Dec1929),
Register of Inmates (3May1861 - 25May1964),
Elizabeth Spence was presumably sent there by her son.
Now, here's some more good news!
I found Alexander Wilson in 1881. Note he declares himself a Widower.
Dwelling: 3 Rose Street North Side
Census Place: Inverness, Inverness, Scotland
Source: FHL Film 0203421 GRO Ref Volume 098 EnumDist 7 Page 44
Marr Age Sex Birthplace
James MACBAIN M 73 M Ashton, Inverness, Scotland
Rel: Head
Occ: Labourer In Iron Works
Ellen MACBAIN M 68 F Beauly, Inverness, Scotland
Rel: Wife
Occ: Wife
Sarah MACBAIN U 36 F Dochgarroch, Inverness, Scotland
Rel: Daughter
Occ: Domestic Servant Cook
Elizabeth MACBAIN 16 F Fort Augustus, Inverness, Scotland
Rel: Grand Daur
Occ: Scholar
Jane PATERSON 60 F Redcastle, Ross and Cromarty, Scotland
Rel: Sister In Law
Occ: Fishmonger
Alexander WILSON W 65 F Dyseort, Banff, Scotland
Rel: Boarder
Occ: General Labourer
And this is his death - proven with certainty:
WILSON ALEXANDER 62 1888 098/ 303 Inverness
Sadly he was knocked down by a cab. I'd like to know what time because I suspect he was staggering home from the pub across the suspension bridge and 'deviated' into the road.
Seems to me Alexander Wilson abandoned his family for some reason, yet they didn't lose touch because his son John back in Peterhead was the informant.
His parents are James Wilson master tailor & Margaret Robertson, so forget about my idea about his mother being Ann Wright. We find this couple in 1851 in Berryhillock, Deskford with a daughter Helen.
This is the daughter
Name Helen Wilson
Gender Female
Christening Date 08 Aug 1812
Christening Place DESKFORD,BANFF,SCOTLAND
Birth Date 05 Aug 1812
Father's Name James Wilson
Mother's Name Margt. Robson
and then we find your Alexander Wilson:
Name Alexander Wilson
Gender Male
Christening Date 01 Jul 1815
Christening Place DESKFORD,BANFF,SCOTLAND
Birth Date 27 Jun 1815
Father's Name James Wilson
Mother's Name Margt. Robson
He would be 25 in 1841 which probably does mean he was at Ordens in 1841, aged 28.
I've got a (poor) image of his baptism - better off you getting a good'un from SP to see where he was born.
There's a brother John too.
FreeCEN gives us 1841 and 1851 (not there in 1861)
Piece: SCT1841/151 Place: Deskford -Banffshire Enumeration District: 1
Civil Parish: Deskford Ecclesiastical Parish, Village or Island: -
Folio: 1 Page: 2
Address: Berryhilock
Surname First name(s) Sex Age Occupation Where Born Remarks
WILSON James M 45 Tailor Banffshire
WILSON Margret F 45 Banffshire
WILSON John M 20 Slater Appren Banffshire
Piece: SCT1851/151 Place: Deskford -Banffshire Enumeration District: 1
Civil Parish: Deskford Ecclesiastical Parish, Village or Island: Deskford
Folio: 121 Page: 17 Schedule: 81
Address: 9 Berryhillock
Surname First name(s) Rel Status Sex Age Occupation Where Born Remarks
WILSON James Head M M 61 Tailor Master Banffshire - Ordiquill
WILSON Margaret Wife M F 61 Tailors Wife Banffshire - Keith
WILSON Helen Dau U F 38 Tailor's Dau Banffshire - Deskford
I think he died thus
WILSON JAMES 69 1859 151/ 5 Deskford
so you should get
his parents.
Probably:
Name James Wilson
Gender Male
Christening Date 01 Feb 1791
Christening Place ORDIQUHILL,BANFF,SCOTLAND
Father's Name Alexander Wilson
Mother's Name Helen Frazer
which takes him away from 'my' Wilsons in Deskford into what appears to be a separate Wilson line there, although they might join up around 1700.
I think that's comprehensively broken through on that side! Happy hunting.