Where & when did Caroline Jude (m/s Nisbet) marry Mr Henderson?

[Rosinish]

This is a complete mystery...

I'm looking for a marriage between Caroline Jude (m/s Nisbet) & a Mr Henderson between 1860 (when her husband Martin Jude died in Tynemouth) & 1876 when their son Martin William Jude married Dorothy Clark in St. Rollox, Glasgow, Scotland naming his mother as Caroline Henderson, previously Jude, M.S. Nisbet.

This is the nearest I could find with both surnames & wonder how I can find out if this is an error as there doesn't seem to be a way of checking the GRO index   

FreeBMD - Marriages Jun 1875 Gateshead (List of couples Jun 1875)
Volume: 10a Page: 1095
Henderson    Mattheq   
HENDERSON Matthew   
JUDE Martin (Name of Caroline's husband)         
KIRSOP Mary       
Nixon Jessie       
PRUDHOE Elizabeth   

I couldn't find a marriage on SP...

However, I have the death cert. for Caroline JUDE registered by the Matron of North Poorhouse, Leith, Edinburgh giving both parents names & her mother's m/s, no mention of Mr Henderson 

Annie

Add...I forgot to say, they may never have married, maybe lived together & son Martin assumed them to have been married as he was only 8 yrs old when his father died 

[CaroleW]

The 1881 has a Martin Jude b 1852 with wife Elizabeth living in Winlaton Durham - Gateshead RD

[Rosinish]

Thanks Carole...however not mine 

My Martin (the son of Caroline) b 1852 married Dorothy Clark in 1876 & were still having children after 1881 where they were in St. Andrew, N/Castle-upon-Tyne.

It's this 2nd marriage for Caroline that has me flummoxed 

Her hubby Martin Jude died 1860 & 2nd 'supposed' husband not mentioned on her DC.

Annie

[groom]

The 1881 has a Martin Jude b 1852 with wife Elizabeth living in Winlaton Durham - Gateshead RD

There is a child born to this couple as well, so doesn't look as if there is a mistake with the name.

JUDE, MARY  ANN     mmn PRUDHOE 
S Quarter 1880
Gateshead   
Volume 10A  Page 877
 

[Rosinish]

Thanks Groom,

I think they possibly only lived together but I can't find them in 1871 

Annie

[CaroleW]

Hi Annie

The 1881 details were to indicate that the 1875 marriage was not an error

Can you give us Caroline's details - birthyear/place - as son Martin is with relatives in 1861

[Drosybont]

Not a marriage and not 1871, but this 1861 Census entry in Glasgow might be them:  Wm Henderson b abt 1825 Paisley, Renfrew and Caroline Jude b abt 1825 England, at 3 N Albion St Glasgow St David, occupation of both Register House Keeper I think - can't check the original.  If it is, then maybe they were in Glasgow in 1871 too?

Drosybont 

[Rosinish]

Sorry Carole,

Thought you were giving me a possible for son Martin 

Caroline b c1830 England, haven't found her on any census' to find out where exactly she was born.

I have son Martin at Old Highlander, Liddle St, N. Shields in 1861


Drosybont,

Thanks, I will look at the Scottish entry but Carolines' occ. on her death was Sick Nurse.

Annie

[Rosinish]

Drosybont,

Which site did you find them on before I go to SP as I have exactly 12 credits left 

Annie