Please, please, please get out your copy of both the 1862 and 1891 marriage certificates, and take a snip of the signatures of Thomas and post these two for comparsion here or on the decipher board.
Please also re-read my posts, particularly the one where I provided the link to the thread to help overcome the elusive blanks on NSW BDM marriage certificates. Your Melbourne friends were NOT issued with any abridged version because they were not family. NSW BDM does not issue abridged versions. Whoever gave them that information was giving false and mis-leading information and ought to be kicked from here to WhoopWhoop and back. Here's the link again.
http://www.rootschat.com/forum/index.php/topic,546609.0.htmlRe marrying in the vicarage rather than inside a Church building.... There has never been a requirement for marriages in NSW to be conducted in any consecrated building. The ceremony can be conducted in the open air, and many were and still are.
Re losing posts....
Perhaps if you type your replies into a word document and when ready then login and copy those posts to the dialogue box? (Oops, add to note, I see Sue has already suggested that)
Re 'The Fatal Shore' .... the author (the late Robert Hughes) in the preamble clearly acknowledges he is writing about the convict system as it existed in NSW, Norfolk Island and Tasmania. He was not writing about the convict system as it existed in Western Australia. Even Ancestry's background info notes that the WA system was about re-habilitating the convicts.
JM