In 1900 George A hands is listed a widowed
1900 census:
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:MSJZ-Z3BThere is an article in Nov. 1904 that indicates he and Selina are married by then. She is referred to as "Mrs. Selina Hands"
1905 census:
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:MVB9-VLF==
By 1910 George and Selina are living seperate but still listed as married. George has a housekeeper Emily Martin. The daughter Lillian is living with Selina
George 1910 census:
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:M5HQ-KTXSelina 1910 census:
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:M5HQ-P33==
The son Albert W in 1900/1905 census gets married in 1910. His mother is listesd as Mary Starkweather.
Marriage:
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:FFRF-WTZ=====
The daughter Lillian gets married in 1914. Her mother is listed as Mary Ann Fairweather. No mention of Selina in news clipping?
Amsterdam NY Evening Recorder
6 Feb. 1914
page 3
Lemlfty—HandsCharles Lemley of Schenectady and Miss Lillian Hands, daughter of George A. Hands, of No. 246 West Main street, this city, were married Thursday evening a\ the rectory of SL John's church, Schenectady, by the Rev; Father P. A. Crowe. They were attended by Mr. and Mrs. William Lemley, brother and sister-in-law of the bridegroom. The bridal couple will take up their residence in Schenectady.
Marriage:
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:FFRF-L28==
In 1915 George A. is still living in the same location with the same housekeeper Emily Martin.
Can't find Selina in 1915.
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No mention of Selina?
Amsterdam NY Evening Recorder
27 Feb. 1912
George Hands, of No. 246. East Main street, left for New York city today, and will sail from there for England, where he will pass several weeks.
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George A Hands died in Sept/Oct 1918. Again no mention of Selina?
Amsterdam NY Evening Recorder (see attached)
28 December 1918
page 3