Violet Coulson - married a Malay Prince and became 'Sultana' of Penang

[ShaunJ]

She later married an American who served in the United States armed forces as Judge Advocate in England.

A possibility in Bournemouth in 1Q 1946: marriage of Violet M Coulson and Kermit Van Leuven.

[ShaunJ]

Kermit Van Leuven was an attorney with the post-war US High Commission for Germany.

[ShaunJ]

Kermit and Violet Van Leuven sailed to New York from Le Havre in November 1952 (en route to Oklahoma City) on the SS America. She was 50 years old. 

[aghadowey]

1952 manifest-
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:QVMF-6MM5

Possible death in 1976-
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:VGT7-88J

Added- Kermit Van Leuven died 1987 California-
https://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=gr&GRid=76071537

[rosie99]

One version says she was the landlady of the place Abdul stayed as a student.
It is said that she managed a restaurant/hotel in London, but I don't know if that fits well with Abdul being a student in Cambridge.

It looks as though it was after he was at Cambridge (From the wiki article)  Tunku had met Coulson in 1927, during his second year as a law student in London

[cath151]

NY Passenger list
Arrival New York  11th Nov 1952
Van Leuven  Kermit aged 44  Oklahoma
"                  Violet  aged 50   England

Cathy
I did find a piece on google about Tunhku Abdul Rahman born 1903, saying that he married Violet Coulson who was five years older than him, but I can t find it again!
This might be wrong of course or she may have "adjusted" her age.

[aghadowey]

... Kermit Van Leuven’s wife of 47 years, Violet,  having passed away in Los Angeles in March of the previous year, Kermit coming to a decision to renew acquaintances with Kaye’s mother Helen in Oklahoma City. ...

https://inquisitivequest.com/2010/08/18/prodigious-acknowledgment-149/

[ShaunJ]

Violet Mary Coulson aged 30 arrived London from Penang on the Fushimi Maru in November 1932.
Address "Clooney" 34 Beaufort Road, Southbourne, Bournemouth

[ShaunJ]

Looks like it was the Violet Mary Coulson born in Sheffield in 1902, mmn Tennyson

This marriage announcement was found in a college alumni publication in Google Books: