In the 1881 CENSUS you already have for George, with his wife & children he is:
Head: Geo PALMER 29, Boiler Maker, b Merstham, Surrey.
This is the 1891 - CENSUS: at 28 Lower Road, West Ham, Essex - George is missing:
RG12 Piece 1324 / Folio 114 / Pg39
Head: Catherine PALMER 44, m (deserted), Charwoman, b Chelmsford Essex
Son: George H PALMER 21, m, General Labourer (Boiler Maker), b Canning Town, Essex
Dau-in-Law: Louisa H PALMER 20, m, b Limehouse, Middlesex
Dau: Rosie PALMER 9, b Canning Town Essex
Dau: Emily PALMER 5, b Canning Town Essex.
The following is a good fit to be George baptism & prior to his marriage
1850 - BAPTISM: at Merstham St Katherine, Surrey
On 24th November 1850 - George PALMER,
Son of Mary Ann and John PALMER, Labourer, Merstham
1861 - CENSUS: at 42 Butcher Row, Deptford St Nicholas, Kent
Head: John PALMER 42, Bricklayers Labourer, b. N.K. Sussex
Wife: Mary A PALMER 38, b Cheam, Surrey
Son: George PALMER 11, b Merstrum, Surrey
Son: Henry PALMER 9, b Merstrum, Surrey
Son William PALMER 7, b Merstrum, Surrey
Son: Ned PALMER 5, b Croydon Surrey
Dau: Harriet PALMER 4, b Croydon Surrey
Dau: Caroline PALMER 9?m, b Croydon Surrey
1871 - CENSUS: at Railway Terr(ace) , Feltham, Middlesex
RG10 / Piece 1303 / Folio 69 / Page 28
Head: Mary PALMER 50, widow, b Cheam Surrey
Son: William PALMER 17, Engine Driver, b Surrey
Son: Ned PALMER 15, Bricks, b Surrey
Son: Charles PALMER 7, b Kent
Lodger: William PORTSMOUTH 19, Bricklayers Lab, b Feltham, Midx
BIRTH REGISTRATIONS GRO:
George 1850, Henry John 1852 - mms HARRIS, Reigate Reg District
Ned 1855, Harriet 1857, Caroline 1859 - mms HARRIS, Croydon Reg District
Charles 1862 - mms HARRIS, Greenwich Reg District
Cheers
AMBLY