« Reply #10 on: Saturday 23 December 17 11:29 GMT (UK) »
My thought is his Mum may have had an affair and there may have been unsurety about his parentage perhaps. Perhaps she and her husband could not face lots of questions and hence he was abandoned in the way he was. I recently read a book about war time experiences in the second world war. One story mentioned related to a woman who had an affair and had a child to a man other than her husband. She originally determined to keep the child but then decided that she could not present this child to her returning soldier husband and for him to live daily with evidence of her infidelity - and so she gave up the child. This seems callous these days but I think there seems to have been a totally different mindset about things in years gone by. In years gone by I think it would have been the expected thing to give up a child from an an extramarital affair no matter how difficult. Thank goodness we live in more enlightened times. It wasn't all that long ago when unmarried Mothers were often expected to give up their children to adopters or to their own parents.
In the BBC story the Mother would not have had the benefit of DNA testing which would have proved the child to be her husband's child. Giving up her child must have been so painful and clearly she never forgot him. My heart breaks for him and his Mother. What a sad story!
I am glad he got to trace his beginnings though.
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