For what it's worth, I think you would do better to do a chronological list of all the (14 in fact) children with full names and birthdates, and if you are going to use two boards cross-refer the posts to one another so that all info can be seen.
Kent thread:
http://www.rootschat.com/forum/index.php?topic=786222.new#newNot sure your dates are completely accurate at the moment; looking at their baptisms and birth registrations:
Mary Charlotte Lindsay, birth reg (as "Female") Jun qtr 1855 Sevenoaks
Henry Marryat Lindsay, birth reg (as "Male") Jun qtr 1856 Sevenoaks (died Tiverton 1903)
Emily Catharine Lindsay, birth reg Dec qtr 1857 Sevenoaks
Caroline Lindsay, birth reg (as "Female") Mar qtr 1859 Sevenoaks
Alexander Sutherland Lindsay, birth reg Jun qtr 1860 Sevenoaks (died Poole 1939)
Robert Hugh Lindsay born 03 May 1861; birth reg ("Male") Jun 1861 Sevenoaks (died California 1944)
Alice Maud Lindsay, birth reg Dec qtr 1862 Sevenoaks (died Bournemouth 1937)
Ludovic James Lindsay born 17 Oct 1863; birth reg Dec qtr 1863 Kettering (died Brighton 1919)
Margaret Lindsay born 27 Apr 1865; birth reg ??
Helen Lindsay born 19 Apr 1868; birth reg ??
Honora Jessie Lindsay born 26 Apr 1869; birth reg Jun qtr 1869 Kettering
Elsie Maria Lindsay born 07 Mar 1871; birth reg (as "Female") Jun qtr 1871 Kettering
Annie Beatrice Lindsay 28 Sep 1872; birth reg (as "Female") Dec qtr 1872 Kettering
Winifred Lindsay born 07 Nov 1874; birth reg ?? (died Kettering Mar qtr 1875 aged 0)