Help Please Histed/Isted

[kitto]

Hello,

I've hit a wall with a John Isted/Histed of Hastings. I have him on the 1871, 1881, 1891, 1901 and 1911 census as born Heathfield about 1834, and Married to Pheobe Isted, then Emily Histed, always living in Hastings. He seems to have added the 'H' to his name between marriages, but I may be wrong. I can't find marriage record for Phoebe and John Isted, or any record of his parents/birth. All help welcome!! 

[rosie99]

HISTED, BERTHA       mmn WOODCOCK     
1874  Sep Quarter in HASTINGS  Volume 02B  Page 20   
HISTED, ETTIE       mmn WOODCOCK     
1874  Sep Quarter in HASTINGS  Volume 02B  Page 20

Possible other birth registrations are giving mothers maiden surname as Harris

[rosie99]

Phoebe was very young when the first child (Phoebe) was born.

Census 1871
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:VF81-3X3

[keyboard86]

Hi Pheby Woodcock 21 Pheby 3
Census ref for 1861 RG09/559/80/14
Keyboard86

[rosie99]

Death Mar qtr 1895   
Isted    Phoebe   age 59   
Hastings    2b   16

[kitto]

That is all very helpful. Many thanks!
Any sign of a marriage for Pheby/Phoebe and John Isted/Histed?

[rosie99]

Marriage Dec qtr 1899 
Histed    John       
Mitten    Emily       
Hastings    2b   48

[rosie99]

I would not be surprised if John & Phoebe did not marry.    Any marriage should show on freebmd 

[avm228]

It looks as though Phoebe Woodcock snr was born in Whitstable on 20 April 1841 and baptised there on 6 June 1841 (census day!).  Parents: Daniel (labourer) and Ann, of Whitstable.