If the last name varies slightly and multiple people show up but the dates and locations and such are the same, odds are it's the same person correct?
No, you have to be far more careful than that.
First you must view images of the original records when there is any doubt to ensure there has been no error in transcriptions (which is surprisingly common) then try to build up relationships and see if the relevant people are named as being in the same relationship on the relevant record. Look for records that name people in family groups such as wills or as witnesses (but be very careful with witnesses as a witness does not have to be in the family group).
It may also help to build short family trees for other families with the same or very similar name (this can/will exclude possibilities).
Look for patterns occurring in the different families (family "A" may have children every years while family "B" may have children every 3 years etc.).
Look for differences is there mention of non conformity (Baptists, Quakers, Methodists etc.).
Look for similarities such as occupations, apparent social status.
Finally never simply accept a record as fitting your family look for other options and try to exclude rather than trying to include the possibilities.
Cheers
Guy