Hi - Suz. At long last I think, with your invalueable help, I have just realised something that discounts the idea that when Thomas was murdered at Durham his 'servant' Ann went elsewhere and his child/ren went into care and one of them was adopted by a woman called Hodgson and thats where all new members of my family were given this as their middle name.
It looks like two of Thomas's children already had the middle name Hodgson before he was killed so they could not of had the middle name due to adaoption later after he died. Still don't know why the middle name was given to them and subsequent children in the family! Thomas had a son Edward Hodgson Pyle born on Apr/Jun 1864. Unfortunately he died 1st June 1865. Also his son Ralph, same name as my father, born Apr/Jun 1866 had the middle name shown in the birth record for that period.
So this leaves me with where did his children go to on his death? Did they go with Ann and her child Robert J Dixon or did, if she went elsewhere, did they stay together as a family because the elder children were probably old enough to look after the younger ones? i don't have a copy of the 1891 census for the Durham area to explore that possibility.
I have found it very hard to go further back further than Thomas but I believe his father was Thomas Pyle christened 20 jan 1783 born at Woodhorn Northumberland and his wife was Harriet Pyle (nee: Kirtley) born possibly 1794 in Scotland. She maybe the same Harriet that is listed aged 77 in the 1871 census in a private house at Monkheseldon Easington.
I have had to make some educated guesses about the rest of my family members on the Pyle side only going back to 1700 living in the Northumberland area.
It's harder than some people think to do your family history even though I chose only to discover my ancestors with my surname Pyle to try and make easier.Thank you very much for your help!! Robert.