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Title: Thomas Breeding
Post by: EllenBan on Wednesday 07 August 24 23:49 BST (UK)
Hi,

I have an ancestor called Thomas Breeding(Breeden) who married Elizabeth Short in Cuckfield 1770. He died in 1828 in Balcombe born around 1750. I thought that he might be Thomas Breeding born 1750 Cuckfield son of Nicholas and Sarah, but looking at the records there is no baptism. I think i found information elsewhere in the past and did not look further into it. Can someone help to find the baptism and right parents of Thomas?
Title: Re: Thomas Breeding
Post by: ColC on Thursday 08 August 24 11:16 BST (UK)
I note the marriage in 1770 but quite a gap before the children were baptised, were there any others?

Balcombe, Sussex Baptisms – Thomas & Elizabeth

James Breeding 27 Feb 1780  
Henry Bredon 27 Oct 1781
William Breeden 14 Nov 1784
Joseph Breden 1 Nov 1789
Mary Breden 23 Jun 1793

Colin
Title: Re: Thomas Breeding
Post by: trish1120 on Thursday 08 August 24 11:21 BST (UK)
As Thomas/Elizabeth don't seem to name children Nicholas/Sarah I would be sceptical those were his Parents.

I see they have children James/Henry/William/Joseph/Mary from 1780.
Must be others born elsewhere?



Mary BASHFORD
Nicholaus BREDEN married 17 Apr 1768 Cuckfield.

The had a Thomas but bapt 11 Sep 1768 so too young to marry 1770.

Elizabeth SHORT was bapt 28 Jul 1751 Holy Trinity, Cuckfield to WILLIAM/SARAH
Title: Re: Thomas Breeding
Post by: trish1120 on Thursday 08 August 24 11:24 BST (UK)
Ok found CHARLES Breeding 30 May 1773, CRAVEN Breathing 16 Feb 1776
Title: Re: Thomas Breeding
Post by: ColC on Thursday 08 August 24 11:26 BST (UK)
There is one tree on Ancestry which suggest this was Thomas, I’m not so sure?
(Shown as 1746 Julian Calendar)

Thomas Breeding
Birth Date 22 Feb About 1747
Baptism Date 22 Mar 1747 Reigate, St Mary, Surrey
Father Jacob Breeding
Mother Ann Breeding

Colin
Title: Re: Thomas Breeding
Post by: trish1120 on Thursday 08 August 24 11:31 BST (UK)
ELIZABETH Breeding 10 Nov 1771

So no Nicholas bapt.

Saw that bapt also to Jacob/Ann
Title: Re: Thomas Breeding
Post by: ColC on Thursday 08 August 24 11:42 BST (UK)
Elisabeth Short, maybe.
Baptism    28 Jul 1751 Cuckfield, Sussex, England
Father   William Short
Mother   Sarah Short

Colin
Title: Re: Thomas Breeding
Post by: jonwarrn on Thursday 08 August 24 16:10 BST (UK)
East Grinstead removal order, 1 Sep 1777
Thomas Breden, married, parish Balcombe
children Elizabeth, 6, Charles, 5, and Craven,1y 6m
https://www.sussexrecordsociety.org/dbs/pl/getrecord/12931/   

Breden entries in the Database of Poor Law records for West Sussex
https://www.sussexrecordsociety.org/dbs/pl/search/?srs_search[surname]=BREDEN

The "boarding agreements" are the poor children placed out to service by the Balcombe parish officers
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:S3HY-D1QG-WJ
Title: Re: Thomas Breeding
Post by: EllenBan on Thursday 08 August 24 23:05 BST (UK)
Thank you all again for your time and research. Yes I have Elizabeth Short b. 1751 Cuckfield too but her husband is still a mystery and the name Breeduing/Breeden is not very common.

The poor family:( I think it was not an easy time for them while growing up. I did not know that these records exist and will look more into it because i have a lot of ancestors from Sussex. You never know the circumstances back then, maybe Thomas was adopted or lived with a family called Breeden and took their last name or was born with a different surname or born illegitimate and later took his biological or stepdads name. The name of his child "Craven" could also be surname that runs in his or his wifes family ???
Title: Re: Thomas Breeding
Post by: trish1120 on Friday 09 August 24 11:35 BST (UK)
Cant see a bapt for Thomas in the right time frame.

For future ref this is the Nicholas/Sarah you referrred to earlier;

Sal BOTCHLY
Nicolas BREEDEN married 10 Apr 1749 St Mary, Balcombe
Nicholas of Cuckfield and Sal of the Parish

Cant see any children to them with my resources.
Title: Re: Thomas Breeding
Post by: EllenBan on Sunday 11 August 24 01:22 BST (UK)
Thank you, I'll write it down, maybe there's a connection somehow and somewhere
Title: Re: Thomas Breeding
Post by: jonwarrn on Sunday 11 August 24 18:22 BST (UK)
Ok found CHARLES Breeding 30 May 1773

As Charles was the name of the first son, it sent me looking for another Charles, and it seems to be a less common first name back then than John, William, etc.
There was a couple called Charles and Susan(na/nah) Breaden who had children baptized in Thakeham in the 1770's and 1780's, though the first child (James) was at Warminghurst in 1769 (and looks like an Emmanuel was baptized there in 1784)

Marriage, 20 July 1769, Warminghurst, Charles Brading + Susannah Soutter
Transcript here
https://www.freereg.org.uk/search_records/58186bc9e93790eb7fc459c1

There is a possible burial at Thakeham, 31 Dec 1828
Charles Braidon, abode Thakeham, age 83
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:S3HT-62RS-38
Title: Re: Thomas Breeding
Post by: jonwarrn on Sunday 11 August 24 18:43 BST (UK)
Somehow I've got to West Chiltington! Where FreeReg index a Charles Breeden burial, 25 Feb 1790
https://www.freereg.org.uk/search_records/5818ef44e93790de6a3eb9b1

Now here, in West Chiltington, we have a baptism
13 January 1750/51
Thomas Brethen
Parents Edmund and Sarah
https://www.freereg.org.uk/search_records/581802f9e93790eca3531de3

Image (faint) of PR here
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:S3HT-D1F1-KZ

Could this Thomas be a candidate? :-\
He is baptized around the right time.

Marriage at West Chiltington, 16 Dec 1746
Edmund Brethen + Sarah Pell
https://www.freereg.org.uk/search_records/58186bf8e93790eb7fc4b182

Sadly, a burial, 9 July 1755
Sarah, wife of Edmund Brethen
https://www.freereg.org.uk/search_records/5818ef43e93790de6a3eb8b0
Title: Re: Thomas Breeding
Post by: jonwarrn on Sunday 11 August 24 18:56 BST (UK)
It's possible that the Charles Breaden in Thakeham married to Susan might have been be a sibling of the Thomas baptized in January 1750/1!

FreeReg has a baptism at West Chiltington, 1 Mar 1746/47
Charles (son of) Edmund + Sarah Brother
https://www.freereg.org.uk/search_records/581802f8e93790eca3531cf1

Reasonable date, given the age on the burial in 1828 in Thakeham of the elderly Charles.

Also a daughter Mary baptized to Edmund and Sarah, 19 Feb 1748/49
https://www.freereg.org.uk/search_records/581802f9e93790eca3531d60
Title: Re: Thomas Breeding
Post by: jonwarrn on Sunday 11 August 24 19:16 BST (UK)
FreeReg has a baptism at West Chiltington, 1 Mar 1746/47
Charles (son of) Edmund + Sarah Brother
https://www.freereg.org.uk/search_records/581802f8e93790eca3531cf1

Sadly I don't have 24/7 access to the wonderful Sussex PR images on ancestry, but from the image of the BT on FamilySearch the name looks more like Brethen than Brother to me
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:S3HT-6MZ3-54Q

Ditto Mary, Brethen
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:S3HT-6MZ3-YL5

Uh oh
Thomas looks like James on the BT :o
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:S3HT-6MZ3-1YP?
Title: Re: Thomas Breeding
Post by: jonwarrn on Sunday 11 August 24 19:24 BST (UK)
Well it's Thomas in the parish register, for sure
Indexed on FS
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:QJDX-9DYP

Looking at the image again
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:S3HT-D1F1-KZ

Baptized in 1750
Starting with twins on 17 April

Further down
Thomas Son of Edmund & Sarah Brethen, Jany: 13th

But it says James on the BT. Hopefully just a copying error! But naughty.
Title: Re: Thomas Breeding
Post by: EllenBan on Tuesday 13 August 24 21:44 BST (UK)
Amazing new information! I will look more into it, one son of Thomas Breeden,Breaden,Breeding was baptised as Craven Breathing, so very close to BRETHEN.

There could be a connection  ;D

The baptism looks definitley like James not Thomas
Title: Re: Thomas Breeding
Post by: jonwarrn on Tuesday 13 August 24 22:04 BST (UK)
Hi
I have got hold of the digital image of the parish register (attached), and he is Thomas on that.
It looks like James on the bishop's transcript, but I think we have to go with the PR as the BT is a copy.

There are a couple of Edmund Breaden baptisms in Pulborough, which is very close to Thakeham and West Chiltington. One in 1715 and one in 1716.
Perhaps one of those is the Edmund Brethen who married Sarah Pell in 1746?
Title: Re: Thomas Breeding
Post by: EllenBan on Tuesday 13 August 24 22:43 BST (UK)
Great he is still a possibility!

I saw the two baptism in Pulborough too but did not find a death for Edmund yet (father of Thomas,husband of Sarah Pell)