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Title: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: Tamara2 on Tuesday 10 August 10 12:04 BST (UK)
OK so I have hunted and hunted but can't work out HOW to PM someone.... I have done a surname search, found someone I wish to PM, and can't figure out for the life of me how.

(Please, once I have an answer and am very embarrassed, can a mod delete this topic??? :) )
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: bearkat on Tuesday 10 August 10 12:09 BST (UK)
You're not stupid - just new.  ;)

Welcome to Rootschat.

You can't send a PM until you've made a few posts.  When you've done that, click on the green scroll on the left of the person's post and you will be able to send them a message.
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: elin on Tuesday 10 August 10 12:09 BST (UK)
Hi Tamara

Welcome to RC!!  No reason to feel embarrassed it takes a while to find your way about but it's worth it.

You can't send a pm until you have posted a small number of messages.  Not sure if it is three or five?
Then you will have the facility.

Just answer this and add a couple more and you will be fine.

Elin
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: Tamara2 on Tuesday 10 August 10 12:12 BST (UK)
Thank you both for your reply! That rule wasn't obvious to me anywhere!  So I guess I shall just keep reading in here and find something to reply to!! Cheers!
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: Ruskie on Tuesday 10 August 10 12:15 BST (UK)
It's 3 posts you have to make before you can PM someone.  :) You can also click on their name if you want to message someone. You don't need to wait till you have something useful to add - you can just waffle on here - I think you only have add one more comment before you're up to 3 posts and can send a PM ...  ;D
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: Tamara2 on Tuesday 10 August 10 12:16 BST (UK)
Thanks ruskie, you've just given me a legitimate reason to post a third time!!  ;)
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: bearkat on Tuesday 10 August 10 12:17 BST (UK)
Now you can send a PM.

It may seem a daft system but it's done to stop spammers.

Enjoy Rootschat, it's a great site.
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: Ruskie on Tuesday 10 August 10 12:18 BST (UK)
Yey! Away you go now! Good luck!
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: Tamara2 on Tuesday 10 August 10 12:20 BST (UK)
Thanks, yes i understand why they do it; just didn't find it explained anywhere :)  ;D
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: bearkat on Tuesday 10 August 10 12:25 BST (UK)
From a previous thread:

Quote from: Erato on Wednesday 28 July 10 14:39 BST (UK)
This question comes up so often, wouldn’t it be a good idea to send a welcoming message to new members that mentions, among other things, the 3-post requirement for sending PMs?


It's a lovely idea, but the idea behind it is to prevent people registering to spam Rootschatters, so if we told them how to do it then it would defeat the purpose.

Trystan
RootsChat Caretaker


If you'd like to ask for this thread to be deleted just click on the report to moderater link on the right of one of your posts and send your request.  Sometimes it's useful for threads to remain to help others.
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: Tamara2 on Tuesday 10 August 10 12:33 BST (UK)
No it's ok! I don't feel so moronic now I know it is a 'hidden' feature! I thought it would be staring me in the face!! ;D
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: sillgen on Tuesday 10 August 10 12:35 BST (UK)
If we delete the thread then your number of posts will go down so you won't be able to send PMs!  Best leave it for a while until you have a few more posts to your credit.  I think it is explained in the how to use rootschat bit but no doubt, like me, you never read the instructions when you are keen to get started on something!
Regards
Andrea
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: Tamara2 on Tuesday 10 August 10 12:39 BST (UK)
No, no need to delete!!! :) I don't feel silly. Thanks again!!!
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: Ian in Sydney on Wednesday 11 August 10 13:07 BST (UK)
This is my message 2 then.  TX for the heads up.
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: elin on Wednesday 11 August 10 15:01 BST (UK)
Welcome to RC Ian!  Keep posting!

Elin
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: PeteM on Friday 13 August 10 12:17 BST (UK)
No it's ok! I don't feel so moronic now I know it is a 'hidden' feature! I thought it would be staring me in the face!! ;D
Thought I was the only one that was stumped using the pm function. so this will count as number one then  :)
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: elin on Friday 13 August 10 12:20 BST (UK)
Welcome Pete!! 2 to go! ;D
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: PeteM on Friday 13 August 10 12:42 BST (UK)
Welcome Pete!! 2 to go! ;D
Thanks for the welcome Elin, that will be another credit  ;)
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: Tamara2 on Friday 13 August 10 12:44 BST (UK)
Ha look what i started :)
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: PeteM on Friday 13 August 10 12:59 BST (UK)
Thanks Tamara for posting the original question, looks like I'm up and running.
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: Edmund f j s on Monday 16 August 10 08:35 BST (UK)
No, no need to delete!!! :) I don't feel silly. Thanks again!!!
keep on asking the questions tamara,not all of us are computer literate even though we use them most days.............. ;)
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: elin on Monday 16 August 10 08:38 BST (UK)
Welcome efjs!  :)

Elin
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: Edmund f j s on Monday 16 August 10 14:28 BST (UK)
Welcome efjs!  :)

Elin
Hi Elin , i`m hooked already.................. ;)
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: jennycox2010 on Saturday 11 September 10 13:08 BST (UK)
I have also had a problem posting my first message.

Jenny

Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: jennycox2010 on Saturday 11 September 10 13:10 BST (UK)
Second message!
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: jennycox2010 on Saturday 11 September 10 13:10 BST (UK)
Third message!
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: Arranroots on Saturday 11 September 10 14:35 BST (UK)
I'm glad you are all getting sorted on the PM front - just to say though, it is heaps better to post your initial enquiries online rather than conducting everything by PM.  Not that you were, but Rootschat itself saves your "work" for you and others can contact you because they know what your interests are, or maybe can answer a question that your P contact couldn't!

Phew - hope you know what I mean - happy posting!

 :D
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: elin on Saturday 11 September 10 15:12 BST (UK)
Hello Jenny,

Welcome to RootsChat!  Have u tried to send me a PM?

Elin :)
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: chicaneuk on Friday 03 December 10 22:01 GMT (UK)
Shameless post simply to enable me to PM someone! :)
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: kathypelham on Saturday 18 December 10 13:12 GMT (UK)
I am pleased you posted this as I need to send a pm and have only posted twice so far.
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: kathypelham on Saturday 18 December 10 13:13 GMT (UK)
Post number three....fingers crossed it works now:)
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: MosesDodd on Tuesday 21 December 10 18:56 GMT (UK)
I too have spent about 30 minutes trying to work how how to send a personal message! There's always an answer from somebody if only you ask the question! Thank you everyone!

Maurice
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: wimpsy on Wednesday 12 January 11 19:18 GMT (UK)
I don't even know what a PM is. ::) so there is always someone stupider. wimpsy
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: ScouseBoy on Wednesday 12 January 11 19:24 GMT (UK)
Wimpsy. I have sent you a PM  to give you an idea what they look like.   Look at the top of the page.
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: aghadowey on Wednesday 12 January 11 19:26 GMT (UK)
Welcome to Rootschat, wimpsy. A PM = Personal Message (for exchanging things like email addresses, recent family information and personal details). It's explained in Help pages - www.rootschat.com/help/pms.php

There's lots of other information in Help pages and other places to start you off here. Don't be afraid to ask questions.
Getting Started / Beginners Links (http://www.rootschat.com/forum/index.php/topic,480454.0.html)

Wimpsy. I have sent you a PM  to give you an idea what they look like.   Look at the top of the page.
New members usually need to make a few posts before using PM system.
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: wimpsy on Wednesday 12 January 11 20:09 GMT (UK)
Thanks for you help. sorry i didn't reply sooner. am trying to find my way around. wimpsy
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: Batitha on Wednesday 12 January 11 20:29 GMT (UK)
OK, this has answered my question too so here's my first post.....

Batitha
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: morganmuir on Monday 22 August 16 19:46 BST (UK)
Thanks for the explanation. I have trying to figure out how to pm for a few days now..
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: groom on Monday 22 August 16 19:47 BST (UK)
Your green PM is lit now, so you should be able to PM people - welcome to Rootschat.
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: morganmuir on Monday 22 August 16 19:51 BST (UK)
Thanks. Still trying to figure out the whole lay-out of the site.
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: bearkat on Monday 22 August 16 20:39 BST (UK)
Keep trying.  You'll soon get the hang of it.  Just ask away - there's no such thing as a daft question, just one you don't know the answer to.
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: groom on Monday 22 August 16 20:50 BST (UK)
Thanks. Still trying to figure out the whole lay-out of the site.

As bearkat said, ask if you get stuck - once you get the hang of it, it is easy. The main rule is don't mention anyone who is, or who may still be living.
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: dawnsh on Tuesday 23 August 16 00:15 BST (UK)
There's more help here (click on Help button to the right of the Home & Forum buttons at the top of the page)

http://www.rootschat.com/help/index.php

and personal messages

http://www.rootschat.com/help/pms.php
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: mojo_jojo on Saturday 27 August 16 15:08 BST (UK)
I have been wondering the exact same thing :)
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: rabrae on Wednesday 01 March 17 22:20 GMT (UK)
Ah now it makes sense.... :)
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: yamarual on Thursday 20 April 17 17:39 BST (UK)
Hello--thank you for posting this question. I'm new too :)
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: BumbleB on Thursday 20 April 17 17:49 BST (UK)
Hello--thank you for posting this question. I'm new too :)

Welcome to Rootschat - so has this helped you, or do you still need assistance?

Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: yamarual on Thursday 20 April 17 18:02 BST (UK)
It's been helpful, thank you--especially knowing that I need to make a few posts before I can send/receive PMs  ;)
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: *Sandra* on Thursday 20 April 17 18:07 BST (UK)
It's been helpful, thank you--especially knowing that I need to make a few posts before I can send/receive PMs  ;)

Welcome to RootsChat from me to.  ;)  You have enough posts now - pm system should work fine.

Good Luck
Sandra
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: dawnsh on Thursday 20 April 17 18:25 BST (UK)
also take a few moments to look at our help pages (tab at the top of the screen)

http://www.rootschat.com/help/index.php

Happy Hunting!
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: Fnna on Monday 24 April 17 21:17 BST (UK)
Hi! I am new too  :)
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: groom on Monday 24 April 17 21:36 BST (UK)
Welcome to Rootschat, you'll find lots of very helpful people here.
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: Treetotal on Monday 24 April 17 23:01 BST (UK)
Hi and welcome to RootsChat....once you find your way around you will be amazed at all the help you will get from the very friendly and knowledgeable members....pass it on  ;D
Carol
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: Fnna on Monday 24 April 17 23:16 BST (UK)
Thank you! It looks great.
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: StripedFeline on Thursday 11 May 17 20:30 BST (UK)
Update: It worked as soon as I posted this, hence looking like a total mong.

Okay,so I've posted over the number of replies you need to put on the forum to PM someone, but it's still not working?! Just says I've posted one post which is complete nonsense. Could someone sort this for me before I go bonkers? Please?  :'(
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: nanny jan on Thursday 11 May 17 20:40 BST (UK)
Posts on the Totally Off Topic board do not add to your total.

Just answer this and that should push your total to 3.
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: groom on Thursday 11 May 17 21:22 BST (UK)
Update: It worked as soon as I posted this, hence looking like a total mong.

Okay,so I've posted over the number of replies you need to put on the forum to PM someone, but it's still not working?! Just says I've posted one post which is complete nonsense. Could someone sort this for me before I go bonkers? Please?  :'(

As NannyJan says, only "serious" posts count, so anything that you've posted on the Totally off Topic boards (which I see that all but one of yours are) wont count.
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: dawnsh on Thursday 11 May 17 21:40 BST (UK)
looks like he got it to work as an update's been posted to the original message
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: tyler11 on Monday 05 June 17 14:21 BST (UK)
Glad i found this, was starting to feel the same!  :-\
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: J0hnnyW1nter on Sunday 09 July 17 21:52 BST (UK)
Thanks ruskie, you've just given me a legitimate reason to post a third time!!  ;)

Brilliant, as I have nothing to post yet but want to ask about a post
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: J0hnnyW1nter on Sunday 09 July 17 21:53 BST (UK)
Glad i found this, was starting to feel the same!  :-\

Your not the only one
Title: Re: I am stupid: how to send PM's on this site??
Post by: J0hnnyW1nter on Sunday 09 July 17 21:54 BST (UK)
Posts on the Totally Off Topic board do not add to your total.

Just answer this and that should push your total to 3.

I am giving it a go as well