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Title: Living Relative...
Post by: greensocks95 on Tuesday 11 October 11 17:42 BST (UK)

Hi...
I'm looking for a living relative who is in my wife's family tree.
  Now I understand the sensitivity of asking for help on this subject and I've tried 192.com, ukphonebook.com...was able to get an address and have written but no reply so my last resort is this avenue.  I am looking for a phone number.
So...a little bit of information, hoping some one would like to help me, they would have to contact me via PM.....for the pertinent info.
The area is Colchester, Essex.
Hoping for some help on this ....thank you
Dave....BC Canada

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Title: Re: Living Relative...
Post by: Lydart on Tuesday 11 October 11 17:50 BST (UK)
Dave ... sorry, but you'd better click 'modify' and remove your email !!   We aren't allowed to put emails on Rootschat ... or we'll get spammed !

Ask for someone to contact you via the PM system (the little green scroll under your avatar) ...maybe someone in Colcehester can help.

Good luck with your search ...
Title: Re: Living Relative...
Post by: greensocks95 on Tuesday 11 October 11 17:59 BST (UK)
Thank you for replying....I wasn't sure how to word it.
Can you please remove it then..
Thanks
Dave
Title: Re: Living Relative...
Post by: groom on Tuesday 11 October 11 18:10 BST (UK)
Hi Dave

As Lydart says you can remove your e-mail by modifying. Click the modify button next to the original post, this will bring up your message. Delete the bit about e-mail and perhaps say to contact you via a PM. Press save under the message and that will do it.

Good luck in your search.

Jan
Title: Re: Living Relative...
Post by: greensocks95 on Tuesday 11 October 11 18:21 BST (UK)
Whew...thanks Jan...My apology to everyone for the violation...
Thanks again for your help
Dave
Title: Re: Living Relative...
Post by: Lydart on Tuesday 11 October 11 18:52 BST (UK)
I see a moderator has removed it anyway !   
Title: Re: Living Relative...
Post by: Shellspacebabe on Tuesday 11 October 11 18:56 BST (UK)
Hello
It certainly is a touchy subject  ??? I have had my wrists slapped a couple of times trying to find this sort of information but with the help of some excellent rootschatters I found living relatives regarding my Mother's father they very kindly PM'd me and gave me some wonderful help so a big THANK YOU to those that helped and good luck with your search
 :)
Title: Re: Living Relative...
Post by: carol8353 on Wednesday 12 October 11 14:31 BST (UK)
Dave

Very few of us are in the phone book nowadays,too many spam phone calls,so we choose to go ex directory.
Also the phone book only relates to those people who have BT( British Telecom) as their provider.

If the people you seek are fairly young or have younger rellies,have you tried Facebook and other social networking sites?

Or maybe even Friends (and Genes) Reunited?

A letter to their local paper may bear fruit ,there are lots of family's being reunited and newspapers always love a good story.

Hope you get lucky with one of those suggestions.

Carol
Title: Re: Living Relative...
Post by: greensocks95 on Wednesday 12 October 11 17:10 BST (UK)
Thank you Carol..
Now I understand your telephone system.......They are in their mid 50's...but ..
I haven't tried facebook....I have tried Genes Reunited...
Thanks for the suggestions.
Dave
Title: Re: Living Relative...
Post by: carol8353 on Wednesday 12 October 11 17:54 BST (UK)
Thank you Carol..
Now I understand your telephone system.......They are in their mid 50's...but ..
I haven't tried facebook....I have tried Genes Reunited...
Thanks for the suggestions.
Dave

Even those of us in our (late) 50's can manage Facebook  ;D ;D ;D
In fact I'm on it but my youngest son is not  8)

Good luck

Carol
Title: Re: Living Relative...
Post by: Lemontree on Wednesday 12 October 11 22:14 BST (UK)
Don't give up on the phone book - I have managed to find two living relatives for two different people using the phone book.

I used a paper version of the phone book and got my hands on a book that was a about 2008-9

I used facebook to look for a 75 year old - I searched for any children he had had and then searched for them instead, that worked  :P

good luck
Title: Re: Living Relative...
Post by: greensocks95 on Thursday 13 October 11 00:41 BST (UK)
HI..
Thanks for the advise....If I had access to BT phone books that might help and this couple doesn't have any children....so ....back to square one
Thanks tho
Dave
Title: Re: Living Relative...
Post by: carol8353 on Thursday 13 October 11 07:13 BST (UK)
HI..
Thanks for the advise....If I had access to BT phone books that might help and this couple doesn't have any children....so ....back to square one
Thanks tho
Dave


http://www.thephonebook.bt.com/publisha.content/en/search/residential/search.publisha

I thought you'd already treid the phone book..........sorry!

Carol

Title: Re: Living Relative...
Post by: greensocks95 on Thursday 13 October 11 18:10 BST (UK)
Hi Carol..
Thanks for the link.....I have not tried that site before.....What I meant was having access to paper phone books, although ancestry have some access to phone directories but only up to 1984
Thanks again for the link.
Dave