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Title: Same couple or not and how to prove it
Post by: c-side on Saturday 25 July 15 23:19 BST (UK)
As there’s a lot more on the ‘net now than a few years ago I decided to go in search of some of my missing persons.

One of these was Catherine Stoker born c 1724.  As an adult she lived in South Blyth, was married in Earsdon church and all her children were baptised there.  But I’d never found her baptism.

I found a suitable candidate living in North Blyth and baptised in Bedlington in 1725.  Her parents were Robert and Margaret Stoker and parish records showed that she had a twin brother, Robert.  There was no marriage for her parents and no sign of other siblings.

I made a mental note not to confuse her parents with a Robert and Margaret Stokoe from South Blyth who appear on the same branch of my tree at about the same time.  Then I looked more closely.

The S. Blyth Stokoes were married in Earsdon in 1721.  Their children baptised in Earsdon were – Ann 1722, John 1728, Aaron and Moses (twins) 1730, Benjamin 1732 and Margaret 1734.

There is a gap between 1722 and 1728 where the twins, Catherine and Robert, would sit nicely.  Also three of Catherine’s sons were named Aaron, Benjamin and John.  This makes me think that the Stokoes and the Stokers could possibly be the same.

BUT if that was the case why is she shown in Earsdon marriage records as Stoker when the rest of the family are shown in the same church records as Stokoe.

Any thoughts?


Christine
Title: Re: Same couple or not and how to prove it
Post by: Ruskie on Sunday 26 July 15 00:19 BST (UK)
The surnames sound so similar they could easily be confused.

I would look at the Earsdon marriage to see if the vicar was not a regular or was new, and may not have known the family - perhaps he misinterpreted or miswrote the surname?

It is tempting to believe they are the same family.

Although you cannot find Catherine Stoker's birth, presumably you have checked to see if there is a Stoker family in the area at the time christening children to see if she might fit, and to eliminate them.
Title: Re: Same couple or not and how to prove it
Post by: sillgen on Sunday 26 July 15 08:47 BST (UK)
Have you looked at the original entry or just a transcript?     Very easy to misread Stokoe for Stoker and vice versa.
Title: Re: Same couple or not and how to prove it
Post by: StanleysChesterton on Sunday 26 July 15 10:00 BST (UK)
Even in the same parish/church names can be spelt differently for a number of good reasons.  Have you looked at the list of rectors over those years, did they change?  Even if they didn't change it might be that whoever wrote the list out made a mistake.  e.g. is one transcript from the parish records and the other from bishops' transcripts?

The parish record isn't necessarily written down on the day, as it happens.  Some are "from memory" up to a month later - and it might've been different people who did it - and it might've been a busy day, or they were pre-occupied.

If it were me I'd like to consider who was doing the writing down - and try to see the originals to see if I made a different spelling from any of the entries.
Title: Re: Same couple or not and how to prove it
Post by: c-side on Sunday 26 July 15 18:42 BST (UK)
Thanks for all your responses.

Firstly - yes, all my Northumberland research is from original PRs - I am fortunate to live only a few miles from the archives  :D

As to the vicar - it's about 15 years since I last looked at this branch and I couldn't say whether the same one was involved in all the records.  I will check this out on Wednesday at my next visit to Woodhorn.  Not sure that vicars signed their records in the 18th century but I can check out the handwriting.

And yes, I did look for other Stokers in Earsdon when I was looking for Catherine's baptism and didn't find any.

It is easy to confuse the two - even today, when everyone is literate, the two names can be mixed up.

Christine
Title: Re: Same couple or not and how to prove it
Post by: Tickettyboo on Sunday 26 July 15 21:15 BST (UK)
I 'really' understand your wish to find something 'definite' to pin down her baptism.

As has already been suggested, a change in handwriting could mean a change in clerk/vicar whoever wrote in the register and that 'could' explain the different surname. Plus of course, as we all know, mistakes are not always down to transcriptions but happen in the originals too. I find when transcribing that the ends of words/names are more likely to be scribbled and therefore often more difficult to read. If a vicar had made a note of the baptism on a scrap of paper then he/ a parish clerk had written it up later then the error could have crept in at that stage.

Nothing that can be 'proved' in the above, but it may push the baptism you find into the "having checked all the available options this is the most likely" category.

Other than that, the only other possibilities I can think of (straw clutching again) are wills, marriage bonds and a real long shot, perhaps something in parish accounts maybe a payment to a family of either name in the relevant parishes?

Based what you already have, I say that this baptism falls into the 'quite likely' category.

Boo
Title: Re: Same couple or not and how to prove it
Post by: Tickettyboo on Sunday 26 July 15 21:34 BST (UK)
Just a thought, if you have these Stokoes in Earsdon with a 'gap' in children being born/baptised, are there any Stokoes in the burial register for the relevant period that could explain the gap?

Sometimes even being able to discount a family is a step forward.

Boo
Title: Re: Same couple or not and how to prove it
Post by: c-side on Sunday 26 July 15 22:05 BST (UK)
They say elimination is just as important as discovery - but somehow never as satisfying!

Like I said it is many years since I looked at this part of my tree until I found this Catherine.  I need to revisit Earsdon records though this does not fill me with joy - they are horrendous in places.

Christine
Title: Re: Same couple or not and how to prove it
Post by: Ruskie on Sunday 26 July 15 22:18 BST (UK)
Any other Stokoes in the area? :-\ (just to eliminate)
Title: Re: Same couple or not and how to prove it
Post by: c-side on Sunday 26 July 15 22:28 BST (UK)
There could well be - it's not an uncommon name in these parts - in fact, neither name is uncommon.

That's why I have this small doubt over the two couples being one.  95% stacks up as being the same people - twins in the family, relatively unusual names occuring in both families (Benjamin and Aaron don't crop up a lot) and gaps where children should be but it's that last 5% .......

I shall grit my teeth and be brave and look at Earsdon records on Wednesday (anyone who's ever researched old Earsdon PRs will understand what I mean  ;D )

I will report back

Christine
Title: Re: Same couple or not and how to prove it
Post by: Ruskie on Sunday 26 July 15 22:41 BST (UK)
If both surnames are common then perhaps easier for a mix-up to arise?  :-\

Yes, the forenames do add weight to the couple being one and the same ...

Good luck for Wednesday - sounds like you might need it.
Title: Re: Same couple or not and how to prove it
Post by: c-side on Wednesday 29 July 15 20:46 BST (UK)
Well, I don’t think I’m any further forward.

If my theory on the couple being the same people is correct then Ann Stokoe and Catherine Stoker would be sisters.  Ann married in Jan. 1747-8 and Catherine married in the same church 6 months later yet one is clearly shown as Stokoe and the other as Stoker.  The writing looks to be the same in both cases though one is quite faded and I had to make them smaller to fit both on the same page for comparison.

I think I’ll have to leave each Robert and Margaret where they are for the time being and look for other ‘clues’

Thank you all for your input.

Christine
Title: Re: Same couple or not and how to prove it
Post by: Cavanaghs on Sunday 11 October 15 21:18 BST (UK)
Hi C-Side,

I don't think it's so unusual for surnames to be quite fluid at the time you are looking at so I wouldn't be too concerned about the use of both Stokoe and Stoker. They could very easily be referring to the same family. I think it was quite common at the time for scribes to use different spellings for even common words in the same text. And then there's the question of speed and accuracy. I often miss off the last 3 letters of my own surname, but not always. It varies.

As has already been said, you could increase your certainty by drawing up pedigrees of all the other Stoker/Stoker families in the parish. Could the Catherine Stoker have been born c 1724 to another Stoker or Stokoe family group or not?

Have you looked at naming traditions in your family and the other families of this name in the parish?

It seems to me that the Catherine baptised in Bedlington is related to your family in some way, given the use of the unusual first names. So worth looking at her line

Are settlement certificates etc available for Earsdon / Bedlington parishes? If there are they may reveal something of the origins and movements of the Stokoe / Stoker family.

HTH!