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Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: billbir on Monday 11 April 16 22:24 BST (UK)
In the 1881 census  there is a Thomas Connor and his wife Mary Isabel and their two children: Richard 2 and Margaret Ann 2 mths. I can find no marriage and therefore do not know Mary Isabel's maiden name. Thomas was born in Shadforth and Mary Isabel in Crook. Oddly, Richard was born in Wakefield. Thomas is my great grand uncle. I also cannot find any other details of this family in any later census. Any help would be much appreciated.
Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: CaroleW on Tuesday 12 April 16 00:03 BST (UK)
If you search the 1871 for a Mary isab** born Crook 1863+- 1yr - one of the results is surname Moore

Freebmd has a Thomas Connor marriage in Durham 1880 and one of the females is Isabella Moore
Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: keyboard86 on Tuesday 12 April 16 00:57 BST (UK)
Hi in 1891 could Thomas Connor be aged 31 Married/Lodger with a John Connor & family at Jackson Street, Whitworth?
Census Ref RG12/4072/148/23
Keyboard86
Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: keyboard86 on Tuesday 12 April 16 02:36 BST (UK)
If you search the 1871 for a Mary isab** born Crook 1863+- 1yr - one of the results is surname Moore

Freebmd has a Thomas Connor marriage in Durham 1880 and one of the females is Isabella Moore

Hi again, I think you will find that Richard was registered as Richard Smith Moore June qtr 1879 Wakefield 9c 49

The  1891 census John Connor aged 40 with wife Isabella and daughter Mary Jane 8 b Wheatley Hill, maybe billbir can confirm is the brother of Thomas, as tracking back it would appear so, Mary Jane Connor 18 b Wheatley Hill in 1901 is with a Jane Brown 76 Widow b Shiney Row and son James 50 b Elemore shown as Grandaughter at 6, Wylam Street, Craghead, Lanchester
Census Ref RG13/4674/10/12 Mary Jane marries a Frederick Davenport Mather in 1907 Lanchester, and unfortunately dies June qtr 1910 Lanchester 10a 185 aged 28
Keyboard86
Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: billbir on Tuesday 12 April 16 08:01 BST (UK)
Hi Carole/ Keyboard

Thank you for your excellent help. Thomas was the younger brother of John. I think what has confused me , is that the wife was "Mary Isabella" on the 1881 census, so I expected to see that name, not just Isabella.

The Jane Brown referred to by Keyboard, is the mother in law of John Connor, who was married to the daughter, Isabella. So Mary Jane Connor, was staying with her grandmother and uncle James, in 1901.

Keyboard, you have given me a bit of a bombshell, as you say 'I think you will find that Richard was registered as Richard Smith Moore June qtr 1879 Wakefield 9c 49' Why Wakefield? I guess as she was so young and the pregnancy was out of marriage, they wanted her out of the way. Then in 1880, Thomas does the right thing and marries her. I guess that he was the father, as he would not have married someone so young, who had someone else's child, but you cannot be sure, without DNA. It is a coincidence that both John and Thomas married girls of about 16.

I have got Mary Jane Connor marrying Frederick Davenport Mather, so that checks.

Thanks to both of you, for your very considerable assistance. It is much appreciated.
Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: billbir on Tuesday 12 April 16 08:26 BST (UK)
Hi Carole/Keyboard,

Just thought that I would let you know, that Richard was registered in Wakefield, as that was where Isabella's father, Christopher Robert Moore and her stepmother? Thomasine lived according to the 1881 census.
Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: keyboard86 on Tuesday 12 April 16 11:15 BST (UK)
Hi their must be some significance in the middle name of Smith, normally a way of indicating the surname of the father, possibly?
Keyboard86

Just where did John Connor marry Isabella Brown?
Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: billbir on Tuesday 12 April 16 15:37 BST (UK)
Hi keyboard,

I hope that your theory is wrong, as it then starts to affect the Connor bloodline, as it would actually be Smith. In my experience, it is often the maiden name of say the grandmother, who wants her name to carry on. I will have to delve a little more.
 You say, 'Just where did John Connor marry Isabella Brown?'

This is what I gleaned:-
Marriage- England & Wales, Free BMD Marriage Index 1837-1915
Name:
John Connor
Registration Year:
1871
Registration Quarter:
Jan-Feb-Mar
Registration district:
Auckland
Parishes for this Registration District:
View Ecclesiastical Parishes associated with this Registration District
Inferred County:
Durham
Volume:
10a
Page:
259
Records on Page:
Name
Isabella Brown
John Connor
Jane Seymour
James Walton
Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: keyboard86 on Tuesday 12 April 16 18:48 BST (UK)
Hi again, so as to keep things tidy, Christopher Robert Moore married Thomasine Willoway September qtr 1872 Durham 10a 437

It is correct that a well loved Granny can indeed be the reason for an "Odd" middle name, but I have got to admit on the times the wonderful fellow RC's have offered advice, the possible father of the child seems to be to the fore?
Keyboard86

EDIT you should have known this, in the 1871 census for Christopher Robert Moore is a Richard SMITH Moore b 1871!
RG10/4958/27/53

And also the Richard Smith Moore b June qtr 1879 Wakefield 9c 49


Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: billbir on Tuesday 12 April 16 19:35 BST (UK)
Hi Keyboard,

On this occasion, I am glad that you are not correct. See below:
Name:   Christopher Robert Moore
Registration Year:   1857
Registration Quarter:   Jan-Feb-Mar
Registration district:   Durham
Parishes for this Registration District:   View Ecclesiastical Parishes associated with this Registration District
Inferred County:   Durham
Volume:   10a
Page:   242
Records on Page:   
Name
Sarah Gladden
Christopher Robert Moore
Elisabeth Smith

In the 1861 census, Christopher Robert Moore 25 was married to Elisabeth ( now we know ) Smith. So that was the reason he was named Richard Smith, after his grandmother. As you say, subsequently Christopher Robert married Thomasine Willoway, (what a great name!).

Regarding your last points, I would have known them, if I had known that Thomas had married Mary Isabel Moore, but discovering that, was the purpose of the topic. Thank you for helping me do that.

Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: keyboard86 on Tuesday 12 April 16 19:39 BST (UK)
 :) Glad the bloodlines are now stable!
So Richard Smith Moore 1879 Wakefield, where did he get to?
Keyboard86
Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: billbir on Tuesday 12 April 16 19:42 BST (UK)
:) Glad the bloodlines are now stable!
So Richard Smith Moore 1879 Wakefield?
Keyboard86

Correct!!
Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: Mabel Bagshawe on Tuesday 12 April 16 20:07 BST (UK)
:) Glad the bloodlines are now stable!
So Richard Smith Moore 1879 Wakefield, where did he get to?
Keyboard86

Consett in 1911

https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:XWHT-4WJ
Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: keyboard86 on Tuesday 12 April 16 20:14 BST (UK)
:) Glad the bloodlines are now stable!
So Richard Smith Moore 1879 Wakefield, where did he get to?
Keyboard86

Consett in 1911

https://familysearch.org/ark:/61903/1:1:XWHT-4WJ

So he married a Elizabeth Ann Mullen December qtr 1908 Lanchester 10a 537
Keyboard86
Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: Mabel Bagshawe on Tuesday 12 April 16 20:19 BST (UK)
1891 - Broomside, Durham

Anthony Holborn    27
Jane Ann Holborn    31 - b Bishop Auckland
Albert E A Holborn    6/12
Richard S Moore    12 - nephew b Wakefield

RG12, 4104, 43, 22


Anthony Holborn married Jane Ann Moore in 1890

Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: keyboard86 on Tuesday 12 April 16 20:26 BST (UK)
Marriage was 2nd November 1890 Sacriston
Keyboard86
Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: billbir on Tuesday 12 April 16 20:34 BST (UK)
Marriage was 2nd November 1890 Sacriston
Keyboard86

Thanks.
Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: keyboard86 on Tuesday 12 April 16 21:30 BST (UK)
Hi again. Death  Richard S Moore September qtr 1959 Gateshead 1a 620 aged 80

Death Susan Moore June qtr 1950 Gateshead 1a 732 aged 64

Richard S b 16th March 1879
Susan b 14th August 1885

Marriage possible in Birkenhead but a Richard S Moore dies in Birkenhead?
Keyboard86
Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: Mabel Bagshawe on Tuesday 12 April 16 22:00 BST (UK)
1939 suggests the Birkenhead one was b 1870

Marriages Dec 1936   Gateshead   Vol 10a p1899    
EMERY    Matilda    Leadbitter   
Leadbitter    Susan    Moore    <<<
Leadbitter    Thomas L    Emery   
Moore    Richard S    Leadbitter    <<<
Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: keyboard86 on Tuesday 12 April 16 22:04 BST (UK)
1939 suggests the Birkenhead one was b 1870

Marriages Dec 1936   Gateshead   Vol 10a p1899    
EMERY    Matilda    Leadbitter   
Leadbitter    Susan    Moore    <<<
Leadbitter    Thomas L    Emery   
Moore    Richard S    Leadbitter    <<<

 ;D What an idiot, found this but for some reason chose to ignore/forget!
Thanks must have another glass of wine!!
Keyboard86
Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: billbir on Tuesday 12 April 16 22:06 BST (UK)
1939 suggests the Birkenhead one was b 1870

Marriages Dec 1936   Gateshead   Vol 10a p1899    
EMERY    Matilda    Leadbitter   
Leadbitter    Susan    Moore    <<<
Leadbitter    Thomas L    Emery   
Moore    Richard S    Leadbitter    <<<

Hi Mabel /keyboard
Thanks for that. I am a bit confused as to why Richard Smith Moore, did not continue to use the name Connor. Perhaps there was a family fallout?
Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: keyboard86 on Tuesday 12 April 16 22:16 BST (UK)
 :) Maybe he knew from the start he was a Moore and not a Conner?
Keyboard86
Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: Mabel Bagshawe on Tuesday 12 April 16 22:17 BST (UK)
Have you found Mary Isabel on 1891? That might give a clue as to what is going on - and the fact he reverts to his birth name could suggest a splitting up (and again a question over his parentage)
Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: billbir on Tuesday 12 April 16 22:29 BST (UK)
:) Maybe he knew from the start he was a Moore and not a Conner?
Keyboard86

Keyboard/Mabel
I still cannot understand why Thomas would marry a very young Mum Mary Isabella and take on someone else's son. Maybe they did split up and Richard took his Mums side. I will need to look at more census details to see when he changed from Connor to Moore.
Thanks for continuing to take an interest in this topic.
Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: keyboard86 on Tuesday 12 April 16 22:33 BST (UK)
Hi again, not many census returns to check out 1881 as Connor, 1891 Moore,  1911 Moore so 1901?
Keyboard86
Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: Mabel Bagshawe on Wednesday 13 April 16 22:53 BST (UK)
No obvious sign in 1901, but he is of an age to be serving  in the Boer War
Title: Re: Marriage of Thomas Connor b1860 and Mary Isabel ?? B1863
Post by: billbir on Wednesday 13 April 16 23:12 BST (UK)
No obvious sign in 1901, but he is of an age to be serving  in the Boer War

Hi Mabel,
That's an interesting observation, thanks.