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Title: Harriet Elliott bc1868 West Ham area
Post by: Jackiemh on Thursday 08 November 18 04:34 GMT (UK)
I am looking for suggestions on Harriet. She may have been born in 1867 West Ham with mother's maiden name Cooke.
In 1888, Dec qtr West Ham (4a 2), Harriet married Albert Henry Stillgebauer  giving her father's name as Henry Elliott.
I have just got copies of birth certificates for their children Harriet, b1895 and Mary Ann b1897 which give mother's name as Harriet Hilliard (very clearly written) and I have checked the GRO index for Frank b1899, which also has the same mother's name.
I have checked for marriages between Elliott/Hilliard and Stillgebauer/Hilliard and drawn a blank. Any ideas?
Jackie


Title: Re: Harriet Elliott bc1868 West Ham area
Post by: Kay99 on Thursday 08 November 18 05:23 GMT (UK)
Just a thought.   Using the surname  HILLIARD  there is a baptism of Harriet Hilliard  on 14 Feb 1869  at Saint Thomas, Stepney with parents Henry and Elizabeth  and I think this Harriet is living in with her mother (who is a widow) in 1871 and below in 1881 living in Ratcliff all born Stepney.     

Elizth. Hilliard 50  Washerwoman
Eliza Hilliard 19
Jane Hilliard 16
Harry Hilliard 15
Harriett Hilliard 12

However I can't see this family in 1891 at the moment or see a reason for a name change :-\

Kay

Added -do you have Harriett's marriage cert with her fathers occupation and any witnesses??  Looking at family trees on Anc are Albert and Harriett listed with the surname Bower in 1891/1901?
Title: Re: Harriet Elliott bc1868 West Ham area
Post by: cath151 on Thursday 08 November 18 06:14 GMT (UK)
Only a thought but  I wonder if Hilliard be misheard as Elliot?

Cathy
Title: Re: Harriet Elliott bc1868 West Ham area
Post by: Kay99 on Thursday 08 November 18 06:21 GMT (UK)
Only a thought but  I wonder if Hilliard be misheard as Elliot?

Cathy

I like that thought Cathy  :)   For ref a previous thread in this really complicated family https://www.rootschat.com/forum/index.php?topic=741172.0

Kay
Title: Re: Harriet Elliott bc1868 West Ham area
Post by: Jackiemh on Thursday 08 November 18 06:26 GMT (UK)
I initially thought about Elliott being misheard as Hilliard but on 3 registrations between 1895 and 1899?  Although, as Harriet left her mark in place of a signature, she wasn't able to check on her surname being correct. I haven't yet got the marriage certificate for Albert and Harriet, that was on my to do list. Just to complicate matters, the Stillgebauer family changed their surname to Bower(s) before WW1 so some documents are in the former surname and others in the latter.
Thanks for your comments. Jackie
Title: Re: Harriet Elliott bc1868 West Ham area
Post by: Kay99 on Thursday 08 November 18 06:31 GMT (UK)
I think Cathy meant Harriet's surname on the marriage cert and especially if Harriet couldn't read/write

Kay
Title: Re: Harriet Elliott bc1868 West Ham area
Post by: Jackiemh on Thursday 08 November 18 06:35 GMT (UK)
That would make more sense. Ok will get the marriage certificate; and I will see what other spanners turn up in the works.
Jackie
Title: Re: Harriet Elliott bc1868 West Ham area
Post by: Kay99 on Thursday 08 November 18 06:38 GMT (UK)
Good luck and do let us know what it says   :)

Kay
Title: Re: Harriet Elliott bc1868 West Ham area
Post by: jonw65 on Thursday 08 November 18 08:50 GMT (UK)
In 1888, Dec qtr West Ham (4a 2), Harriet married Albert Henry Stillgebauer  giving her father's name as Henry Elliott.

You can see the marriage here (need to be logged in)
https://www.familysearch.org/ark:/61903/3:1:S3HY-DZN9-QPZ?i=33&cc=1465709&cat=402202

Residence for both 3 Bolton Road.
Title: Re: Harriet Elliott bc1868 West Ham area
Post by: jonw65 on Thursday 08 November 18 10:05 GMT (UK)
Witnesses Wray?
All signed.
Title: Re: Harriet Elliott bc1868 West Ham area
Post by: Lily M on Thursday 08 November 18 19:37 GMT (UK)
Have you considered that these could be two different Harriets.
Harriet Elliott wrote a clear signature on her marriage certificate.

Did your Harriet have any children before 1895?  She seems to have had children with two year gaps, but the first child as born seven years after her marriage.

Having said that, I can’t see a death for the first Harriet.

Title: Re: Harriet Elliott bc1868 West Ham area
Post by: Jackiemh on Thursday 08 November 18 20:33 GMT (UK)
I have just had a quick look the family search  link but can't get a clear enough image (will try later when I have more time). If the witnesses are Wray, Albert's sister, Margaret Elizabeth married Albert Thomas Wray in 1885. I have ordered the marriage certificate.
I had wondered about there being 2 Harriets but hadn't come across the 1st one dying and another marriage for Albert. Although it is possible that Albert and Harriet (1)  split and Albert lived with the 2nd Harriet. I haven't found any children for the years before 1895 either.
Just to add to things, Albert died in 1909, and I haven't found the rest of the family in the 1911 Census.
Thanks for your time and ideas, Jackie
Title: Re: Harriet Elliott bc1868 West Ham area
Post by: Jackiemh on Friday 09 November 18 03:10 GMT (UK)
I have had time now to check the information from the familysearch image. The writing is quite clear as to Elliott and Harriet's signature is there, ie no mark.
Another thing, I have just checked my copies of the 1891 and 1901 Census. Albert only gets 7 yrs older and Harriet 5yrs - I  was not too concerned about this originally - but maybe there were 2 Harriets. I have looked again for 1911 Census using Harriet Hilliard and for a marriage for Harriet Hilliard between 1909 and 1911 and so far drawn a blank.
I have contacted members of the family who are interested for their thoughts but it may be one of those questions to which we will never know the answer.
Thanks again, Jackie
Title: Re: Harriet Elliott bc1868 West Ham area
Post by: Kay99 on Friday 09 November 18 05:15 GMT (UK)
I wonder if this is another child for the couple??  Listed on FreeBMD as Stillgevauer

ALBERT STILLGEVANER    mmn HILLVARD     
GRO Ref 1893  Sept Qrter  WEST HAM  Volume 04A  Page 90

Kay

Title: Re: Harriet Elliott bc1868 West Ham area
Post by: Jackiemh on Friday 09 November 18 05:50 GMT (UK)
Oh dear, I would say very likely, although I hadn't come across that spelling before but it looks too close to be dismissed. I will check it out.
Thanks Jackie
Title: Re: Harriet Elliott bc1868 West Ham area
Post by: Dundee on Friday 09 November 18 07:27 GMT (UK)
I haven't found the rest of the family in the 1911 Census.

Frank is at a Scattered Home in West Ham as Frank BOWERS.

Class: RG14; Piece: 9673; Schedule Number: 480

http://www.workhouses.org.uk/scatteredhomes/

Debra  :)
Title: Re: Harriet Elliott bc1868 West Ham area
Post by: Jackiemh on Friday 09 November 18 09:06 GMT (UK)
Yes, that looks like him. Will try to see what happened to him.
Thanks Jackie
Title: Re: Harriet Elliott bc1868 West Ham area
Post by: jonw65 on Friday 09 November 18 09:35 GMT (UK)
Is this Harriet's death?
Dec 1904 West Ham 4a 63
Stillgebower, Harriet   
age 36   

Buried in a Newham cemetery, 27 October 1904 (Stillgebauer)
Title: Re: Harriet Elliott bc1868 West Ham area
Post by: jonw65 on Friday 09 November 18 09:58 GMT (UK)
Same quarter, same year
Birth
Dec 1904 West Ham 4a 140
Stillgebower, Samuel
mother Elliott

Death, same reference as Harriet
Dec 1904 West Ham 4a 63
Stillgebower, Samuel
age 0

Samuel Stillgebauer
Buried 27 October, ? Cemetery in Newham
Same day as Harriet.

So, Harriet nee Hilliard, and Elliott, same person?


Title: Re: Harriet Elliott bc1868 West Ham area
Post by: Lily M on Friday 09 November 18 12:50 GMT (UK)
A great find jon!  At least it solves one part of the conundrum.
Title: Re: Harriet Elliott bc1868 West Ham area
Post by: Kay99 on Friday 09 November 18 13:15 GMT (UK)
Thanks for hopefully proving the theory John  ;D   

Kay
Title: Re: Harriet Elliott bc1868 West Ham area
Post by: jonw65 on Friday 09 November 18 13:36 GMT (UK)
Hi
Yes Kay, your Harriet Hilliard from Stepney does look very likely to be the right lady. Well found!
And thanks Lily, you're right about the conundrum. So odd about Elliott!
John


Title: Re: Harriet Elliott bc1868 West Ham area
Post by: Kay99 on Friday 09 November 18 13:41 GMT (UK)
Have this birth already been found??

WILLIAM STILLGEBAUER  mmn    HILLIARD   
GRO Ref 1901  Dec Qrter  WEST HAM  Vol 04A  Page 146

Kay
Title: Re: Harriet Elliott bc1868 West Ham area
Post by: Jackiemh on Friday 09 November 18 19:59 GMT (UK)
Great findings. I thought I had found most of the Stillgebauer 'pieces' and Harriet's death in 1904 explains a lot. Will check them out.
Thank you again. I  haven't heard back from the family - I think they are still reeling!
Jackie